I just met last week one gorgeous girl. I am tutoring her in math, she’s 18 yrs old and I’m 24. I leave in September to grad school, but this girl is just perfect (I can very well be infatuated…since I just met her recently). Is it better to go for a summer fling or go all out (girlfriend stuff)? Long distance relationships suck, but damn she’s just too good. If I go all out, I’m afraid I’ll fall for her hard….so it’s just risky.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Summer Fling
- Thread starter jomram
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