"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Summer DJ mix

Deep Dish

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A Midsummer's Night Melody
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You know, I always chuckle to myself just a little when I see a thread about "DJ music." As if there is any such a thing as "Don Juan music," and why talk about it when you can show it? ;)

I just recorded this mix and thought I'd share, for all you electronic music lovers out there. The track selection takes you on a journey from house music to progressive house to techno, and contains many summer sounds including lots of piano and organs. The mix also turned out somewhat longer than I anticipated and I will re-edit it down to 80 minutes (in case anyone would want to burn it onto a CD). All around, good times, good music. Hotness.

If any of you guys have girlfriends who are into electronic music, I'm always interested in their opinions.


click here for the visual/artwork version of this tracklist

1. "Her Eyes Are Stars" by Stryke (Shooting Stars At 2 AM Mix) [Plastic City]
2. "Deviate" by Manuel Tur & DPlay [Drumpoet Community]
3. "Summer Calling" by Airwave (Phunk Mix) [Black Hole Recordings]
4. "Chime" by Martijn ten Velden (The Shapeshifters) [Defected]
5. "Breeze" by DJ Gregory (Marlon D and George Mena's Main Spark Mix) [ITH (Defected In The House)]
6. "Gotta Have House" by Keven Maroda (Jorgensen) [Juicy Music]
7. "Summerfish" by Leonid Rudenko (Scandall Sunset On Ibiza Remix Instrumental) [Nervous Records]
8. "Summer Crash" by Devoice [Deal Records]
9. "Panker" by Lutzenkirchen [Great Stuff]
10. "Alone With You" by Deadmau5 [mau5trap] *
11. "Surin" by Quivver [Boz Boz]
12. "Faxing Berlin" by Deadmau5 [mau5trap] *
13. "Finally feat. Julie McKnight" by Kings of Tomorrow (Those Usual Suspects) [ITH (Defected In The House)]
14. "4AM" by Kaskade (Adam K & Soha) [Ultra]
15. "Ide" by Nic Fanciulli (Tiger Stripes) [Renaissance]
16. "Bahia Melody" by Lutzenkirchen [Great Stuff]
17. "For A Friend" by Lutzenkirchen [Great Stuff]
18. "Long Distance" by Adam K & Soha [Nervous Records]

Total time:
91 min 42 sec

* (I'm about a month away from seeing Deadmau5 -- pronounced "Dead Mouse" -- in concert, and I'm soooo excited!)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Akuma

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Looks awesome but I'm scared to download this from work... I'll let you know if I ever get the chance to download it.
 

PRMoon

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Downloaded it and burned it to CD. Deep dish has mixing skills my people. I still bump his last mix in my ride when I have girls as company and this one doesn't dissapoint either. There's just an even flow to what he does and I'm not saying that because he's a fellow Don Juan.

If you ever decide to go pro disc deep dish, you let me know, I'll get you booked for gigs around vegas any time you need.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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02hero

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Thanks alot DD, I'll check it out later.....I just love getting freebies :up:
 
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