"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Summer DJ mix

Deep Dish

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A Midsummer's Night Melody
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You know, I always chuckle to myself just a little when I see a thread about "DJ music." As if there is any such a thing as "Don Juan music," and why talk about it when you can show it? ;)

I just recorded this mix and thought I'd share, for all you electronic music lovers out there. The track selection takes you on a journey from house music to progressive house to techno, and contains many summer sounds including lots of piano and organs. The mix also turned out somewhat longer than I anticipated and I will re-edit it down to 80 minutes (in case anyone would want to burn it onto a CD). All around, good times, good music. Hotness.

If any of you guys have girlfriends who are into electronic music, I'm always interested in their opinions.


click here for the visual/artwork version of this tracklist

1. "Her Eyes Are Stars" by Stryke (Shooting Stars At 2 AM Mix) [Plastic City]
2. "Deviate" by Manuel Tur & DPlay [Drumpoet Community]
3. "Summer Calling" by Airwave (Phunk Mix) [Black Hole Recordings]
4. "Chime" by Martijn ten Velden (The Shapeshifters) [Defected]
5. "Breeze" by DJ Gregory (Marlon D and George Mena's Main Spark Mix) [ITH (Defected In The House)]
6. "Gotta Have House" by Keven Maroda (Jorgensen) [Juicy Music]
7. "Summerfish" by Leonid Rudenko (Scandall Sunset On Ibiza Remix Instrumental) [Nervous Records]
8. "Summer Crash" by Devoice [Deal Records]
9. "Panker" by Lutzenkirchen [Great Stuff]
10. "Alone With You" by Deadmau5 [mau5trap] *
11. "Surin" by Quivver [Boz Boz]
12. "Faxing Berlin" by Deadmau5 [mau5trap] *
13. "Finally feat. Julie McKnight" by Kings of Tomorrow (Those Usual Suspects) [ITH (Defected In The House)]
14. "4AM" by Kaskade (Adam K & Soha) [Ultra]
15. "Ide" by Nic Fanciulli (Tiger Stripes) [Renaissance]
16. "Bahia Melody" by Lutzenkirchen [Great Stuff]
17. "For A Friend" by Lutzenkirchen [Great Stuff]
18. "Long Distance" by Adam K & Soha [Nervous Records]

Total time:
91 min 42 sec

* (I'm about a month away from seeing Deadmau5 -- pronounced "Dead Mouse" -- in concert, and I'm soooo excited!)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Akuma

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Looks awesome but I'm scared to download this from work... I'll let you know if I ever get the chance to download it.
 

PRMoon

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Downloaded it and burned it to CD. Deep dish has mixing skills my people. I still bump his last mix in my ride when I have girls as company and this one doesn't dissapoint either. There's just an even flow to what he does and I'm not saying that because he's a fellow Don Juan.

If you ever decide to go pro disc deep dish, you let me know, I'll get you booked for gigs around vegas any time you need.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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02hero

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Thanks alot DD, I'll check it out later.....I just love getting freebies :up:
 
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