"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ImAFailure

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i'm currently on the waitlist for a summer math class. the capacity is 28. has anyone ever been on a waited list? how long did it take for a spot to open? do you think i have a chance of getting in?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Change your username.
 

Giovanni Casanova

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ImAFailure said:
Holy sh*t, it's not like you have an extensive posting history. Just register a new username.

None of that self-defeating bullsh*t.
 

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And to answer your question, it depends on how many people are ahead of you. Just remember, this is a MATH class. In the SUMMER. When everybody else will be on the beach in the sunshine. Someone out of that 28 is likely to talk themselves out of it. The likelihood of some people dropping the class and moving you up on the waitlist is much higher in the summer than in the winter or fall.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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changed user name.

thanks for the info. actually no one is ahead of me. i'm the first person the waitlist
 

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another question. it might seem obvious but i'll ask anyway

i just checked the schools website. the wait list is 2 now. i am one of those 2. as stated earlier, i was the first person on the waitlist. so, how am i supposed to tell if someone drops the class? also, do i have 1st dibs on the class since i was 1st on the waitlist?
 

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You can be sneaky and ask the professor to let you in his class. Just have him sign a slip the admin department will give you. That's how I get into classes that are full.

The way it works is they have a max capacity of people in the room at one time but they always put it like 8-10 short. So lets say the max is 40 they might cut off at 32. It's up to the tacher if they want to let you in past 32. They just can't have any more then 40.
 

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i should obviously do that the 1st day of class?

btw, that is mad sneaky *waits for class on the 11th*
 

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Just show up to class the first day. There will be a couple of people who are registered who won't make it the first day. There will also be several people trying to add the class the first day, but you'll priority.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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so on a percentage scale, what chance do you think that i will get enrolled in the class?
 
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