Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Little Italy

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I'm in, summer starts June 12 for me, just got a job, getting a car, finally starting mma fighting, and dj bootcamp, sounds like a good summer lmao
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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gonnamakeit

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Lol little italy practicly same with me Just got job, should get car soon, do mma and am switching gyms possible lol hell ya big *summer.
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the threads we will report in wil be in don juan discussion
 
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Darles Chickens

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Count me in.

I Started a previous one run by Al Moh but couldn't finish it due breaking my hand in the first week ( don't worry it wasn't one of the tasks) so i've always wanted to do it again and finish it.

I've just finished my second year at uni and have sorted a job for the summer so this should keep me busy.

Good luck everyone.

DC
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hi guys,

Count me in.

i've been working on theory for the past 3 month, 2 months of physical training (huge for inner self improvment) time has now come to take it all in the field and add a bunch of experience.

fake it till you make it they say... well i don't want to fake it anymore.
 

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alright lookin good

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Yy lloyd awesome perfect timing you have lifting as a part of your routine now and are at the point where you have gotten good results and are loving it but are not too advanced so you will be hitting PRs all through out the bootcamp which'll up your confidence. I am at the same spot with my lifting I love hitting lifting goals and seeing my body and mind change.
 

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My name is Big Poppa, BP, my real name is Jake so lol, use whatever.

I'm fairly confident, I can open no problem, with anyone. Girls and Guys. Closing is what kills me, I have no idea how to escelate and build attraction and I always lose speed mid conversation and start thinking about what ifs.

What I have gained

I go to the gym three times a week and do Muay Thai on my off days.

I have a job which is more than a lot of teenagers my age have.

I can now Open and talk to anyone.

I'm now rid of the "Girls are special snowflakes of unique specialness" attitude.

What I want to Gain:

I'm currently trying to gain the "I'm the ****" attitude by just focusing on myself and my skills.

Be able to close with girls my age and above.

Get a six pack for the hell of it.

Hopefully this bootcamp will help kick ass, or rathe, **** it :D
 

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My name is Big Poppa, BP, my real name is Jake so lol, use whatever.

I'm fairly confident, I can open no problem, with anyone. Girls and Guys. Closing is what kills me, I have no idea how to escelate and build attraction and I always lose speed mid conversation and start thinking about what ifs.

I go to the gym three times a week and do Muay Thai on my off days.

I have a job which is more than a lot of teenagers my age have.
Have always been plauged with oneitis and always ended up getting hurt.

I'm currently trying to gain the "I'm the ****" attitude by just focusing on myself and my skills.

Hopefully this bootcamp will help kick ass, or rathe, **** it :D
 

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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gonnamakeit

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Looks like you have a awesome base big poppa and'll do really well. I am real pumped for this bootcamp let's try and set a new record and have everyone get through it.

Just want to keep reminding you guys the report threads will be in DON JUAN DISCUSSION remember.
 

Senor Juan

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So I'm down, I'm in 8th grade and will be spending half the summer at sleep away camp (Great place to meet girls) so I probably won't be able to fulfill all the requirements but I can certainly try my hardest. I'm not at all uncomfortable with girls, I can easily make conversation, approach etc. I'm well respected by my peers. I'm very fit, with an 8 pack, but I don't want to lift weights until freshman year. That's what I have. This is what I want:
The ability to close. Girls love talking to me, hugging me etc, but I've never been able to actually date a girl. This isn't an issue I'm insecure about, just something that I want to get handled. I also want to be able to approach girls in any situation, be it on the street or at a party. I want to get to that next level of confidence, where I assume any given girl will like me.
 

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just joined and im in

a little about myself- i've been lookin at these forums for some time now, but until now never felt like joining. I've been trying to improve myself because many times i'm disssapointed in myself. I have a job this summer and will hopefully have lots of time to spend socializing. I'm excited to overcome my shyness, get out there and meet new people!
 

I'm in the Mood

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I'll try this, but I'm more into room-temperature approaches if you know what I mean.

I'm 17, I've improved my game a lot this year and I don't plan to stop, ever.
My goals are more knowledge/wisdom/understanding-oriented than getting the girl or getting laid.

But who knows..
 

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i'm in the mood

Lookin good
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm still pretty new to all of this, but sign me up!

Goals for this summer:
finish my eagle project and get out of scouts
get a job
make exercising a habit
become a better conversationalist (with guys as well as girls)
practice driving and get my license
stop spending so much time on the dang computer!
 

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get with it
blue hanger

Wow turning into a huge bootcamp can't wait for all the improvements we can all make.
 

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Yes, for sure. This is the time I don't make a half arsed attempt at improving myself, this is the time it happens. I'm in.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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