"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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summary of what works for me, fair amount of sex included

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This is a short summary on what works for me. It doesn´t make me a champion-"I have them all"-player, but it gets me the amount of sex I´m confortable with.

1) You have to know your market value. No 10 if your´re not a 10. Hit on the girls you can accually have. Only way around this: Practice 12 hours a day. Because most of you out there have a Job this is no option. Lucky you if you live of a fat bank account.

2) Dress up, get a sharp hair cut, muscles will help.

3) Make solid but relaxed eye-contact, if your´re nervous concentrate on your breathing

4) Show calmness and presence. No false loyality - use the guys around you to show her who´s the alpha

5) Go for her or ignore her, but avoid foolish staring

6) Give her a "You have no idea what kind of action you will give me"-smile, open the conversation with a well placed neg-hit (not in an arrogant way, she has to understand your´re a fun guy)

7) She will test your self-confindence: It´s never your fault, it´s her´s, your perfect. (Again, no arrogance, keep it funny)

8) The conversation should be mainly about her, push towards what she feels, don´t start fixing her problems

9) talking less is always better than talking too much, don´t give her to many details about yourself, tease her

10) If´s she´s interested in you it´s obvious, in this case don´t forget touching her

11) Don´t hesitate lying to her. That makes the difference between nice guy and bad guy. An example: Make her believe you told only her something very private about yourself

12) Don´t offer anything, be patient for her to offer
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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:)

I'm not one for scripted strategies, but I really like your post.


You posted the steps that work for you.

Others can try them and learn from it.

There should be more posts like this.
 

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nice 1... altho i believe u can build up your "marketvalue" over time (both ur mental and physical values) as long as u have ur shyt going...
(think stock....u have money, u have the possiblity to invest and get more money)
 
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