"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sumemr College Environment..worth a shot?

Patrick124

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Well as a sophomore currently, I was required to take the PSATs earlier this year. my resutls were godo enough to get me letters in the mail for multiple college, including a Stanford summer thing[they want a transcript, so I wouldn't be excepted haha], and Oswego Summer Art Institute[in New York]..
Anyone ever attended such summer things? I personally am not in the mood to learn..but if ti means going to New York for 2 weeks, no parents, a car, hott chicks and partying...i'll put up with the 9hrs of art-class a day.
so in general, anyone tried these sumemr things? Attractive girls at these? Are College-towns dead-beat over the summer?
and how easy would u presume itd be to score beer/get into clubs[with a decent fake]
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kidd

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I am kind of having the same thing.

The college at Santa Barbara, UCSB, is offering 3 weeks of college classes to hs students. Il be going with my best friend.

Just use it for the fun, and the learning experiences (and of course the classes).
 

Michael Chief

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HOLY SH!T!!!!! YES!!!!

Stanford's EPGY - Education Program for the Gifted Youth. GO. ITS WORTH IT. ILL SEE YOU THERE. if i get accepted lol

I went last summer and i literally had the best 3 weeks of my life. First time i fingered a girl, too. Total. Major. Cutie.

In that kind of environment, you are exposed to girls 24/7 and therefore you will show your true side - your naturally attractive side...and you hardly even have to try!

Um..just try not to fall in "love" haha. It gets to be a b!tch.
 

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thanks guys.
I was planning on the 2nd session of that Stanford shiet.. my GPA is like 2.5 lol[in Algebra 2 and IB Government].. I dunno if its even worth the $30s for the application, since chances are i won't get in. what was your GPA when u got in?
and lto sof hotties? are any colelge students around the campus to party with?
and..if u smoke, is the greenery around?
jw lol.
 

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Stanford is a beautiful campus with the most awesome environment youve ever seen. Also, being with your gifted peers liek a family is definitely an experience you DONT want to miss out on. I'm sure that admissions will consider that you're taking IB govt...holy sh!t dude...IB...govt...

It's worth every penny. This is an opportunity to be on your own and responsible...and an even greater opportunity to hone your skills in being a DJ. EPGY has a DANCE every weekend, too. Greater opportunity...i always got in trouble for moshing, though haha

I dont remember what my GPA was...I think i had alot of B's, tho. and i did horribly in spanish...
But its not all about the GPA. I'm pretty sure that the PSAT is a major factor.

You will basically be with peers. Girls from all over the world will be there. Some will be hott, some will be not. If you grab the opportunity to befriend some college students on campus, then i dont see why you cant party with them. Maybe I should have done that.

And i dont smoke, so i have no idea about that.
Maybe that's why your GPA is so low :p

I applied to second session's creative writing. i did music theory last year.

And keep in mind that you have other opportunities as well. I'm going to apply to Summer@Brown's Music minicourse and ill try to do that if i dont get accepted to EPGY.

Trust me, you will absolutely have a BLAST...just dont forget to pack your DJ-ness. ;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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