"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Suitcase Deadlift

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Amazingly, I can't find a thread here about this very nice exercise.

http://www.crossfit.com/journal/library/55_07_dumbbell_ddlft.pdf

I find that the deadlift/squat combination is too much for the same week. The dead and squat work too many of the same muscles.

But a heavy suitcase lift works the back and hams nearly as well as a deadlift, and the quads and glutes nearly as well as a squat.

(I found a thread by Bud_2005 asking about deadlifts with dumbells, but he called the dumbells "barbells" and confused the crap out of everybody.)

Fun Fact: did you know that the deadlift is called the "health lift"?

The dumbells end up banging into your knees when you get heavy. You run into all kinds of grip problems. There is a curious frame in my gym that allows suitcase lifts without dumbells. No one knows what it's called.

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Where you stand in the middle of the = sign.

Does anyone know what this is called? What's your opinion?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wouldn't that be similar to just doing deadlifts or squats with dumbbells?
 

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Phyzzle said:
Thanks for that. I see I'm not the only one who gets confused:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=130776&highlight=trap+bar

This device is brilliant. My flexibility is horrible. I can't even do squats to parallel; my heels come off the floor no matter how much or how little weight I try.
Sounds like you need to do some serious stretching. Check out stronglift's site for glute, hamstring, hip flexor, piriformis stretches etc.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Master Bates said:
Wouldn't that be similar to just doing deadlifts or squats with dumbbells?
I did do these for a while. They are another squat+deadlift alternative, but they are too low to the ground for me, even lower than a barbell deadlift. Plus, you have to farmer's walk the dumbbells back to the gym's rack, argh!

Also, it easy to find one of these?
This guy claims he re-introduced it after a hiatus:
http://www.trapbartraining.com/
I've never seen one in a store, so I guess it's ordering only.
 
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