"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Suitcase Deadlift

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Amazingly, I can't find a thread here about this very nice exercise.

http://www.crossfit.com/journal/library/55_07_dumbbell_ddlft.pdf

I find that the deadlift/squat combination is too much for the same week. The dead and squat work too many of the same muscles.

But a heavy suitcase lift works the back and hams nearly as well as a deadlift, and the quads and glutes nearly as well as a squat.

(I found a thread by Bud_2005 asking about deadlifts with dumbells, but he called the dumbells "barbells" and confused the crap out of everybody.)

Fun Fact: did you know that the deadlift is called the "health lift"?

The dumbells end up banging into your knees when you get heavy. You run into all kinds of grip problems. There is a curious frame in my gym that allows suitcase lifts without dumbells. No one knows what it's called.

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Where you stand in the middle of the = sign.

Does anyone know what this is called? What's your opinion?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wouldn't that be similar to just doing deadlifts or squats with dumbbells?
 

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Phyzzle said:
Thanks for that. I see I'm not the only one who gets confused:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=130776&highlight=trap+bar

This device is brilliant. My flexibility is horrible. I can't even do squats to parallel; my heels come off the floor no matter how much or how little weight I try.
Sounds like you need to do some serious stretching. Check out stronglift's site for glute, hamstring, hip flexor, piriformis stretches etc.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Master Bates said:
Wouldn't that be similar to just doing deadlifts or squats with dumbbells?
I did do these for a while. They are another squat+deadlift alternative, but they are too low to the ground for me, even lower than a barbell deadlift. Plus, you have to farmer's walk the dumbbells back to the gym's rack, argh!

Also, it easy to find one of these?
This guy claims he re-introduced it after a hiatus:
http://www.trapbartraining.com/
I've never seen one in a store, so I guess it's ordering only.
 
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