"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've been using this site plus other materials for the past few months (3 or so, not sure). I've been hitting quite a few booties. I recently settled on 3 that are in different towns. Here is what has gone down thus far. I'd like critiqued on what I might have done differently to get even better results (and I'm not disappointed).

Chick 1:
Lives at home with her mom. 19. She has 2 kids but you'd never know it to look at her perfectly flat, scar-free belly. She's pretty, basically never goes out because of the kids. Got her in bed on the third date. Follow up with a few more, then we found out she was prego by her x-husband. Afterwards, she turned kind of cold. I calmly informed her I needed more and turned up the romantic talk. She has since resumed affection but still no bootie.

Chick 2: Got the f-close on the first date. Resumed with more of the following on the next two dates. She thought she was pregnant and got 3 home tests. Thank the man upstairs, I am off the hook on this one fellas. Last time we met she had to go to hospital. We were there 7 hours. I wanted to go somewhere else, she said no. I wanted food, she wouldn't let me use her car. I wanted to order a pizza, she wouldn't let me use her phone. I wasn't too happy. When we got home she wanted ..., I actually said no because I was tired/hungry/sore. I was done with her at this point. She actually told me she wanted a guy that would take care of her so she could quit working. Yea, dream on hunny cuz I'm all about being supported myself. She called me the next night at girl #1's house and I obviously couldn't talk. We broke up, I ain't crying!

chick 3# This one is really hot. Stripper turned animal care worker. No kids, nice house. First date we made out. Second started bad. I didn't have a plan because we decided to go out last minute. She got mad and said she could've done something else and was irresponsible for me to have no plan. I almost walked, but she is HOT and AWESOME body. I stuck it out. She kept looking away in the movies. FInally got her back to a friends house and charmed her good. Got her back to her place and scored the .... Very, very good. She told me it was better than with guys she'd been with for years. She then said I could get a lot of girls that way. She started saying I was probably just using her. I was able to get her back into happy mode. I had to leave early the next day and she got mad about it. She then blew my phone up the next day (I couldn't answer right then for obvious reasons related to #1.#2). She said we should break up because she can't trust/get ahold of me on voicemail. I tried her to next day but no luck. She left another voicemail last night asking me to call her tonight. I know I should kick her, but man, she is a 10 if I ever saw one and very affectionate. I'd like to keep her around without losing my dignity or being a controlled, little mommas boy like she wants me to be.

My main problem is how do I answer calls from one girl while with another. If I ignore the calls, then I get angry calls and break up ultimatums.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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themanwithnoname

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The quality of women you are dating are trash, good luck and riddance! I have my own rules on women and they're more pure and clean than this!
 

BigMike

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Originally posted by themanwithnoname
The quality of women you are dating are trash, good luck and riddance! I have my own rules on women and they're more pure and clean than this!
Seriously! The second a girl starts freaking out cuz I dont pick up MY phone she is nexted. No questions or explanations.

This is not the 7th grade. Time to grow up I tell em.

:mad:
 

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3 that are in different towns

smart

then we found out she was prego by her x-husband

haha you ain't a pimp till you been there lol

she is 19 with 2 kids and an ex husband ?


damn dude you dealing with the same trash i deal with :)


i mean... i used to deal with.

H0eZ

She thought she was pregnant and got 3 home tests.

more condoms. less sex with no condoms.

I wanted to order a pizza

at the hospital ? haha CLASSIC

Yea, dream on hunny cuz I'm all about being supported myself

lol you a man wh0re :)

Stripper turned animal care worker

LMFAO !!! :crackup: best switch for a prostitute i have ever heard of !

i laughed for 5 minutes before the tears dried and i could type this

She told me it was better than with guys she'd been with for years. She then said I could get a lot of girls that way

watch.... ready... " She then said I could get a lot of girls that way "

her prostitute mindset is still in place. she is talking about you becoming a gigalo

ok now to your question :

My main problem is how do I answer calls from one girl while with another. If I ignore the calls, then I get angry calls and break up ultimatums.

ok you need to instill trust in these women so their paranoid thoughts diminish somewhat

you need to throw off a trustworthy vibe

girl #1 pregnant. no good.

girl #2 looking to get pregnant. no good.

girl #3 ex stripper see pimp dictionary. stripper = good looking prostitute that knows how to dance

he house money $$$ comes from years of *cough* service for " private clients " out of typical stripper work hours

ie. i hook the b*tch up so she stays clean and provides some fun while my wife is out of town . comprendo where her dollero come from amigo ?

not much to work with bro and i thought i was a pimp lol

ok but maybe the hooker with a heart of gold is your best bet

girl #3 shows promise

she has money. is hot and has moves. and she wants you for a serious relationship.

for your joe dirt style i suggest she be your choice BUT

i give you a warning

she sounds DANGEROUS

stripper = prostitute = criminal connections = hitmen = yo a$$

a jaded wh0re is a dangerous wh0re be careful

infact forget the stripper and stop shopping for danger and start looking for some decent women

where ?

the opposite of where you are finding these trailer trash b*tches

stay off the streets !

follow the legit money and get some legit b*tches

they are alot less drama and more trusting

also switch phone off to simulate a low battery failure or get a new number and tell your h0ez your phone got stolen
:cool: or say : i am going to movies with my brother frank will have to switch off cell during movie. switch to silent. she calls. after you finish booty call with other b*tch call her back and say you had phone on silent in movies and you called her as soon as it finished. sustitute movies with hospital , funeral , church, sleeping , work meeting WHATEVER :)


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

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I gotta agree with these guys...Stop dating wh0res would you?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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al77

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Originally posted by everywomanshero
My main problem is how do I answer calls from one girl while with another. If I ignore the calls, then I get angry calls and break up ultimatums.
Simply don't pick up the phone. What are they angry with? Tell her if she asks - "I was in the middle of a conversation...."
if she leaves you a message - call her back later.
Is not that simple, right?

Chick#3 - Predict her behavior: if she is a former stripper, you know what to expect from her - she was and is spoiled with attention. She is not a LTR material to begin with... so just be ready to break up with her at ANY TIME!

by the way what dating sites you were using?
 

everywomanshero

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White Trash Women

I find them all over. I live in a slum. There is literally thousands of white trash women everywhere. They get naked in bars, get drunk and go home with strange men, etc. If anyone really likes the style I have, then he should fly out to my place for a weekend. On the other hand, I have a feeling you are asking so you can avoid the sites in question

There is many small towns around here with 3-4 strip bars, a churches chicken, a few massage parlors, and that's it. There is dozens of such towns all within a few minutes of one another. General indication of the area....
 
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