“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hi,

I've got a girl who I met via a website. We've only exchanged an e-mail or two and she expressed a preference to meeting up. She said she was coming to the country (UK) and it'd be good to meet up. I asked for a pic and didn't hear anything for days. Then I got an e-mail saying she was on holiday in the country (UK) and better than sending pics we should get together. She said I should call her or leave a message, etc.

What do you guys suggest in terms of strategy?

I thought it'd be good to bounce some ideas.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Dust 2 Dust

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Rule #1 of online dating

You absolutely must get a pic before meeting.
 

SamePendo

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Not the best thing to do...

Well, if you are going to do it, yes, picture. Take your precautions when going to meet her.
But you should really really try to stop the internet romance stuff. It is completely another world when you do it face to face. Have internet communication with people you allready know. Dont conquer someones heart through internet. Because you probably wont, and if you do, she probably isnt worth it.
 

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yes! picture is a requirment, believe me, there can be some true hororheads out there.
 
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