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Suggestions Wanted - how to get the # from an email

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Hello gentlemen,

There's this 7.5 (but I give her an 8.5 for speaking 8 languages and having a very nice accent : )), she's in a club with me and I've spoken to her a few times. Since I'm on the exec (muahahaha) I had her email address, so I invited her to a party at my place, she came and left. I should have gotten the # but that's in the past now.

So now, I think she's interested (if not who cares anyway), but all I have is her email addy. What do you gentlemen recommend? Email her about going out, ask for her phone number by email? How do you get a girl's phone number by email? I probably won't see her for another month if I don't act, but I have no idea how.

Hahahaha, maybe I should just write only one line, "What's your phone number?"

Bahahaha, that would rock.

Your thoughts please.

Izza
 

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OK

Thanks for the chorus of help guys :cool:

I ended up sending an email, no subject, with just one line: "What's your phone number?" and signed my name. Hahaha, we'll see how that goes, couple bucks says she challenges me or just simply doesn't respond.

I can't believe I sent this email on Valentines Day, that was slow of me.

*reeking of desperation* (oh well, too bad)

Izza
 
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If this girl is in a club with you then why won't you see her again for a month? If that's the case, then I guess you have to ask her number by e-mail. I don't think I would go with your plan to have it only be the subject heading, but I guess it could work.

I think you should have acted faster and tried to set up a date with her for V-day. If she would rather be alone on V-day then on a date with you then you probably want to next her. Or if she's seeing someone else, then you would find that out early.
 

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Originally posted by Dapper Swindler
If this girl is in a club with you then why won't you see her again for a month? If that's the case, then I guess you have to ask her number by e-mail. I don't think I would go with your plan to have it only be the subject heading, but I guess it could work.

I think you should have acted faster and tried to set up a date with her for V-day. If she would rather be alone on V-day then on a date with you then you probably want to next her. Or if she's seeing someone else, then you would find that out early.
The club only meets once a month, sometimes more - we give charity concerts for the blind and elderly (yea I know, I'm a saint :- P).

I had no subject heading, and made "what's your phone number? Izza" the body. Yea, I definitely should have acted faster, but I don't know about the date for V-day - that kind of reeks of using someone else so that you don't feel like you're a loser on V-day. Not sexy, and not a good way to be. Just my opinion.

Izza
 

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Well, me have the digits :- D

Now I have to think of somewhere to take her, so long as she's treating me right.

Izza
 

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Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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