"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Quick reminder guys, I know this has been said many times in this forum in different ways, but it is absalutely CRUCIAL to have a cool innergame. Innergame, some call it a great state of mind, some call it self esteem or whatever, you just got to have it. Women only enhances our life, women are only a compliment, the icing on the cake, approach women happy, not to be happy.

Some suggestions for innergame:

1.) Listen to some upbeat, positive music: This is a great way to get in a good state really quick. I listen to cool, upbeat positive music every morning now instead of drinking coffee.

2.) Exercise

3.) Meditation

4.) Start living a passionate life - if you're living a crappy life, only YOU have the power to do something about it.

5.) Know your fears and little by little go out of your comfort zone.

6.) Hang out with positive people

7.) Read an inspring book

8.) Stop watching/ reading to crap on TV, movies, or anywhere for that matter.

9.) Lay off the sugars

10.) Watch a funny movie

Just a couple of things I could think of..well anyways I don't care what you do, just get out of that crappy state and learn to feel freakin AWESOME!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i like no#9,
lay off the sugars! i remember when i used to become a total basket case and fly off the walls when i drank too many red bulls or Rockstars! i since cut down drasticly and feel alot better..i'd used to get soo hyper,then aggitated then sleepy all in the course of an hour or two!
 
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