"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Suggestions for a text?

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Can someone give me a good suggestion for a text to send a HB without looking desperate. I tried to set up a date with her last week by text (she didn't pick up my call and appears to want to do it by text) but she said she was busy with presentations at work etc so next week would be better (i.e. this week) i told her 'yeah cool, get in touch next week'

that left it open ended that i could either contact her or she could. i wanted to test if she would contact me but i rather take control and set up a date tomorrow. what should i send her? i dont want to set up the date straight away by text, it seems too keen, i should build rapport first at least with 1 text.

should i send a 'hey, how are you>?' or something more personal to her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I wouldn't be texting her more than once a day if she hasn't replied back to my last text.

Building comfort is always better in PERSON than in a text.

Just send something small, light, interesting and funny to get her attention and get back to building some attraction with her, cos right now you're a little more invested in her than she is in you.

"Hey, how are you" puts you straight into the average guy collection and is begging to get one-worded replies.
 
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~Is saying something like 'so when are me and you going for that drink?' sounding too desperate?

I mean she was the one who sent 'lets talk next week' do i need to send 1 text before the 1 above before i ask her out again?
 
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"Busy tommorow?"

sets it. then take it from there. keep it simple (for) stupid.
 
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use something with a sexual innuendo that you've used with her in person before with a winky face. easy easy easy
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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stay away from "emoticons" makes you look like a kid or a girl.
 
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TheDon1 said:
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stay away from "emoticons" makes you look like a kid or a girl.
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lol please. get out of here with the anti texting message. texting is an art and emoticons are a medium, as oils are to painting. if you can learn to use them correctly then you can get to a point where every text you send is flirty and fun. that's where you want to be.
 
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lol please. get out of here with the anti texting message. texting is an art and emoticons are a medium, as oils are to painting. if you can learn to use them correctly then you can get to a point where every text you send is flirty and fun. that's where you want to be.
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There is something very weak and feminine about emoticons.

Definitely no good.

The only time i would ever use one (winky face) is during dirty talk, and only when im not sure whether or not im pushing the boundaries too far. Which is me being unconfident and therefore emoticons show insecurity.

Lesson: dont use.
 
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