Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Suggestion to those beginning weightlifting

benjiprice

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I'm a little surprised at some of the questions that are being asked concerning weight-lifting in this forum, because they really show an absolute lack of effort put into researching the area. I'm sure most of those people have spent a ton of time researching information on dating, so I'm a little confused as to why they don't replicate that behavior regarding fitness.

There are a ton of resources online on excercises and diet (absolutely essential).

EDIT: First consult the stickies in the H&F forum, which have a ton of information written up by people with years of lifting experience. If you want any more information you can consult bodybuilding.com (especially their forums) and t-nation.com.

Those resources are for people at all levels, not just professional bodybuilders. So I really suggest that people put some more effort into it. If you don't you'll quit because you're not going to see the gains you expect, and then you'll probably blame it on genetics.

I'm not saying you shouldn't ask questions, but even though there are people who do know their **** here, they can't give you a complete view of things, because it's just too much information.

Please put the effort into it, it's for your own good.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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spesmilitis

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bodybuilding.com kinda sucks. Kinda hard to find the basics at t-nation.com

Just read the stickies here, they are pretty friggin good and good enough for people even at their more advanced stages of lifting.
 

Heart Break Kid

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I agree on diet. I used to eat just when I felt hungry and was wondering why I never grew. Once I really got into eating and huge amounts of protein no more did I think of myself as a hard gainer.
 

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benjiprice said:
I'm a little surprised at some of the questions that are being asked concerning weight-lifting in this forum, because they really show an absolute lack of effort put into researching the area. I'm sure most of those people have spent a ton of time researching information on dating, so I'm a little confused as to why they don't replicate that behavior regarding fitness.

There are a ton of resources online on excercises and diet (absolutely essential), such as bodybuilding.com and t-nation.com. Those resources are for people at all levels, not just professional bodybuilders. So I really suggest that people put some more effort into it. If you don't you'll quit because you're not going to see the gains you expect, and then you'll probably blame it on genetics.

I'm not saying you shouldn't ask questions, but even though there are people who do know their **** here, they can't give you a complete view of things, because it's just too much information.

Please put the effort into it, it's for your own good.
¿¡WTF?!

¡Don't fall of that high horse, mate - you'll surely break your neck!
 

benjiprice

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beercan said:
¿¡WTF?!

¡Don't fall of that high horse, mate - you'll surely break your neck!
Haha, you're right. Suggesting people get a better understanding of weight-lifting and nutrition is utterly arrogant of me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think the issue is your assumption that there is not good information to be found here.

There are a number of accomplished lifters on this board and lots of info has been posted. Quiksilver is doing a great job of trying to provide an 'index' of key posts.

There is nothing posted on bbing.com that you can't find on here - especially as regards the basics.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
I think the issue is your assumption that there is not good information to be found here.

There are a number of accomplished lifters on this board and lots of info has been posted. Quiksilver is doing a great job of trying to provide an 'index' of key posts.

There is nothing posted on bbing.com that you can't find on here - especially as regards the basics.
Ok, point accepted. I didn't mean it in that way, and I certainly should have included a reference to the stickies. Post edited accordingly.
 
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