"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Suggestion: Style/Fashion forum

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To alot of guys, fashion and style is 'gay' for a guy to worry about.

Confidence is huge in bein a DJ.

I believe the better you feel about yourself, the better you perform as a DJ.

Why do some men spend huge amounts of money fancy clothes and watches? Sure most guys'll just say "for the ladies". But honestly, its to inflate our male ego, which is just so fragile. To pump up our confidence. (here's a good article on this: http://www.askmen.com/fashion/austin/22_fashion_style.html)

From the hair on your head, to the shoes on your feet. The overall aura that you can emit in some nice-looking clothes; the relaxed, yet oh-so sexy haircut; the glossy shine of a nice pair of loafers.

Women notice things like this, so not only does it boost our confidence as a DJ, itll help us with the ladies directly.

I have searched through the internet and found some good sites for fashion and style, and it has helped me alot. I suggest a place where guys can trade fashion/style secrets, must-do's, faux-pas, and the like.

How bout it? good idea? bad idea?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How many guys here specialize in fashion/style? Not enough to warrant a forum for that specific topic. The number of questions related to fashion/style are very limited as well.

It would be a good idea if it were not a bad idea. :)
 

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Im making a friggin suggestion here, you dont have to come criticize me, mock me, and call me a d!ckhead... If you dont like the idea, then fine, say so...
How do you get off callin people names? Get a friggin life and stop makin yourself feel better by callin some guy on the internet a d!ckhead aight?
 

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Just add the lamers to your ignore list if you can't put up with them. Allen told me that I can put people on my ignore list, but I'm not weak-minded like that. I want to hear what my enemies have to say.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I personally take an interest in fashion, and would love to see a forum. The only thing I can say to counter u guys' posts is that most people here are not anything near fashionable...


dressing "punk" or "prep" or whatever else "ghetto"...ugh...anyways they are NOT fashion. They are what we call the fashion victim.
I think a fashion forum would help the people here get some REAL dress sense, just as the h&f forum does. We could point out what to wear, what suits what, when to wear it...etc.
 

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I dress extremely well, and get compliments on it all the time. I have given some fashion advise here at this forum but it is not nearly enough to warrent a forum.

Talking about fashion in a forum is also kinda difficult and pointless. But if you must go to GQ.com and post on their forum.

Mr. Mystery
 

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Actually, the GQ forum is kinda bad, but they do got real good style there (with the occasional pissing contests, thread farters, spammers, etc)...

Try the forums at Askmen.com
 
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