"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Suggestion: Remove post-count

Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by Demon
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Gio... you so silly.... woop woop!
Another way to get a high post count is to reply to everything everyone else says, no matter how asinine it is.

By the way, bump.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WHATS IT TO YOU!!!!!
ARE SOME OF U GUYS PROUD OF YOUR SO-CALLED "POST COUNT", I PITY YOU!!! IT JUST SHOWS HOW PATHETIC U ARE BY POSTING ALL THE DAMN TIME INSTEAD OF GETTING WOMEN!! I MAY BE ANGRY BUT WOMEN LOVE ME!!!!!!!!!:mad:

ANGRYMAN OUT!!!!!!!!!
 

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Angryman
There's no need to roleplay on this site. It's quite obvious your anger is an act (note the caps lock and the exclamation points). You should be pitying yourself for being such a fake.
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Another way to get a high post count is to reply to everything everyone else says, no matter how asinine it is.

By the way, bump.
Yeah!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Having the post count has not created any problems as far as I can tell. And I would assume that most people like it.

In fact, when I'm on other forums and they have the post count removed, it greatly annoys me because I want to see how active certain posters are without having to pull up their profiles.

And although post count doesn't equal DJ knowledge, it would, in general, be a pretty good predictor.

bump
 

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Originally posted by SoSuave.com
bump
Oh geez, even Allen is in on the joke now...what has this board come to? :D
 

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I'm actually slightly embarrassed by my post count, as well as the info about how long I've been a member. If I could justify it by saying that I've become an accomplished DJ in the process, it would be just fine. But I really can't. It's something I'd rather not be reminded about, and I certainly wouldn't mind it not being visible to others. But what are ya gonna do?:(
 

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Well, age is optional. Post count and registration date could be too. All you need is a few lines of php code and a checkbox in your profile.

[ ] Show registration date
[ ] Show post count

...but I don't think Allen can properly configure that. Mind you, I'm going off the fact that "Age:" shows in the user column even if there's no value associated with it.
 

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But Demon, I thought you wanted everyone to see your massive, stimulating post count so we could all bow down...expect for Gio.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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i think there should be different post counts for different forums. or, one post cont for all the daun juan forums, discussion tips and high school, one forhealth and fitness and one for anything else and suggestions and feedback.
 

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Originally posted by crazykid
But Demon, I thought you wanted everyone to see your massive, stimulating post count so we could all bow down...expect for Gio.
Those options would be for individuals. If I want to show off my throbbing... well, you get the picture... I could just enable the "Show" options. So if someone didn't want to show their post count, etc. publicly, they can disable it in their profile setup.
 
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