"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Suggestion: Long term relationship forum?

penkitten

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Treetz said:
When the moderators create a (sub)forum, all the LTR threads are centralized. Why dont we create a forum for LTR and see if there are going to be enough threads/posts, if not then the forum can be deleted...
because the mods don't create the forums here, that is up to the owner.
there have been suggestions for years about a ltr forum, and the answer has always been that there are not enough threads and posts to have such a forum category.
over the years, he changes them as he sees fit.
there used to be one called suggestions and feedback.
there have been others that are gone now.
there have been new ones added, such as mature man.

all the mods can do, is suggest it to the owner of the site.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mpimpin

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Pen raises a good point. The other mods nor I make the big decisions. I can just throw a suggestion in the hat like all of you.
 

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Ok ok I see, well keep us up to date! Also agree that it is a choice if you want to be in a LTR even when your 21 or so.
 
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