"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Suggestion: Long term relationship forum?

penkitten

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Treetz said:
When the moderators create a (sub)forum, all the LTR threads are centralized. Why dont we create a forum for LTR and see if there are going to be enough threads/posts, if not then the forum can be deleted...
because the mods don't create the forums here, that is up to the owner.
there have been suggestions for years about a ltr forum, and the answer has always been that there are not enough threads and posts to have such a forum category.
over the years, he changes them as he sees fit.
there used to be one called suggestions and feedback.
there have been others that are gone now.
there have been new ones added, such as mature man.

all the mods can do, is suggest it to the owner of the site.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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mpimpin

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Pen raises a good point. The other mods nor I make the big decisions. I can just throw a suggestion in the hat like all of you.
 

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Ok ok I see, well keep us up to date! Also agree that it is a choice if you want to be in a LTR even when your 21 or so.
 
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