"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey, I have found an eBook to solve all of your High School troubles. Not really, you still have to apply them to your life. The book goes over that.


I am reading "The Popular Life" eBook, and it is revolutionary. I am chugging through the book, feasting my eyes upon the gems this book contains.

My synopsis: This book will change your entire personality, or your "inner game" for those who only get pua terms. One thing is it alters your "personality backbone," instead of supplying you with strategies and material for every situation. It gives you an insight into how your personality is formed, along with howe you will resist change and how you can recognize it.

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p.s. Might add more reviews as I go along.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Exhumed

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I don't want to pay money :p And I've been changing my personality immensely somehow and it's really starting to show with my social life...I think a confident stride and a strong tone of voice are most important. That and being lively and talkative.
 

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I've taken a look at it before, and didn't like it. It tells you to conform, not to rock the boat, and be like everybody else.

This would help you if you have been standing out in a bad way, making poor social decisions.

It will also make you blend in, which is a bad thing if you want to stand out above the crowd, and be better than an average man.
 

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Being a pua is being nonconformist. Like the guy above me says it won't help u become better. You will conform, become average, wear average clothes. Average clothes get average girls.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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stop listining to this PUA trash
the OP is right
you should go from
a loser which most of you are
and then read this book and become normal
then you can change a few things
nerds dont go straight to jocks they transtition and this is the stepping stone it sounds like
id really like to get this book but i dont have the money
anyone know whhere one could get it free downloaded?
 

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I might look into this, I find that the inner game is more important to develop than materialized and structured conversations.
 

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That book will only help you if you are a social failure. It will turn you into an average, ass-kissing guy. Yes, that's what the book tells you to do. Its philosophy is that people will like you if you are conservative and fit in by acting like everybody else.

Follow its instructions if you want to be like every other AFC on the planet.

If that's what you want, fine, but I want to be better than that.
 

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Captain said:
That book will only help you if you are a social failure. It will turn you into an average, ass-kissing guy. Yes, that's what the book tells you to do. Its philosophy is that people will like you if you are conservative and fit in by acting like everybody else.

Follow its instructions if you want to be like every other AFC on the planet.

If that's what you want, fine, but I want to be better than that.
Good looking out, now I'm not even gonna touch it.

For me, no one has ever spoken truer words in the seduction business than David X. His relentless seminar has really helped me change my attitude from literally being one of the nicest guys you could ever meet to someone who takes charge. Yesterday we were all doing hookhah and one of my friends kept on hogging the hose for himself when it was my other friend's turn. I told him straight up "Hey man it's his turn, fvckin give it to him dawg, you've taken the most hits out of all of us."

Before I would have never ever said that, I would have let him continue doing what he was doing while standing down. Expectedly, he stopped taking so many damn hits and we had a clean rotation going on.

Usually when I learn something new on the field, it is actually more from my own experience than it was from anything I've ever read. Not with David X though, I can say with confidence that a large part of my improvement has come from him. If you want some real inner game sh1t, click on the link "confidence" in my signature. What I usually do is listen to at least 30 minutes of his seminar before I go to sleep so I'll remember his teachings better.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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rtb227 said:
Being a pua is being nonconformist. Like the guy above me says it won't help u become better. You will conform, become average, wear average clothes. Average clothes get average girls.
By going out of your way to be nonconformist, then you're just conforming. Ex: Wearing goth clothes to stand out.

The true meaning of nonconforming is when you're doing something different for yourself, not for others (rather than for the sake of just being different -.- . Ex: Wearing goth clothes because you like them, not some omfg people in society are such phonies type of excuse.

You guys are too into this PUA bullcrap, grow a backbone.
 

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I have learned the most about being a "DJ" (term I hate) from books that aren't centered on that topic. Siddhartha, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, and I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell have taught be more about being myself and living the life I want to than any pickup book ever could. This game is 100% mental, once you have a good head on your shoulders, nothing can stop you, but that starts with being comfortable with what you are, something I fear very few people on this forum are.
 

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drummer said:
I have learned the most about being a "DJ" (term I hate) from books that aren't centered on that topic. Siddhartha, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, and I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell have taught be more about being myself and living the life I want to than any pickup book ever could. This game is 100% mental, once you have a good head on your shoulders, nothing can stop you, but that starts with being comfortable with what you are, something I fear very few people on this forum are.
Quoted for truth.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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