"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Suggest some books.

Ghost.

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Got free time on my hands (well...relatively, but yeah) and I want to invest that time into reading some material that you guys personally think has helped you the most.

There's a lot of titles out there, but I'd rather have your takes on them based on experience.

I'm more interested in inner-game related material. Core confidence and all that, but feel free to post any title that has helped you out.

I've already read Dale Carnagie's How to win friends and influence people. That stuff is timeless. And golden.


PS: I know this question may have been asked before, but times change. Mystery method seems outdated for example.

PPS: I know the best way to improve is to practice, you're right. But it's not one or the either, right? I can practice & learn :D.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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RedZone

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Eleven rings by Phil Jackson. Not a PUA book by any means but def talks about leadership. Also, talks about how he used mediation to bring the team together as a unit. More than that though the mans a winner and it can't hurt to learn from one.
 
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