"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Huffman

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I got a number, she's kinda nice but I don't really feel like dating... so before I let a good number go to waste, why not do some experiments?

Suggest anything you like! I was thinking something like trying for a booty call straight away. Little to zero chances I guess, but I feel like doing something crazy ;) Who has a better idea?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Put her in friendzone..... See what her social circle is like???
 

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Nope it wasn't! Met her at a party, good kino and eye contact going on, but nothing really sexual I'm afraid. I was actually kinda bored and took the number just out of reflex. I was talking to her and her flatmate at the same time (who was NOT ****blocking and also interested I guess), then for some reason she had her cellphone out, and without even thinking I just said "Oh, now that your cellphone is out, just give me your number" and she did. I guess I got an ego boost out of it...

Yeah I know I should have taken her to dance. I just didn't think... anything. Maybe it's winter or I'm overworked, but my libido is really low these days.

So there was attraction, but not really super strong. I just feel obligated to call now that I have the number. Plus she was pretty...

Anyway it doesn't matter, keep em coming! :D
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Oho just noticed it's Valentine's Day today... I wonder if that changes anything?
 
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