"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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suddenly stoped talking...

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lucky13

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me and this girl were talking nonstop for a week or so, we made eachother laugh, flirted, etc. i wasnt really doing much chasing after and she started most of the conversations and kept them going on. well she came over the other night and we watched a movie, had fun, laughed and had a good time, but as soon as the movie was over she said she had to go (got a call from her mom), and left pretty fast, but when she left we were still talkin and laughing and stuff.

well afterwards, the next day she didnt text me or call me and so the day after i texted her, no response, and then when i im'd her, she said a line or two and then had to go because she had to do chores. that was yesterday (sunday) and we havent talked since, which is weird since we were talking all the time for about a week.

i dont know whats up? she seemed to be really into me and then it seems she just totally stoped liking me... any ideas what i should do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sounds like you're way too clingy. Just relax if she doesn't respond right the next day, there could be many different reasons. Most likely she's probably trying to see if your obsessed with her (and you took the bait) by cutting off contact with you to see what you would do. Just play it cool and don't anxiously try and contact her, give it a few days and let her get in touch w you, that way you don't come off as desperate.
 
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forget her...

talk to ten other chicks....

trust me you'll forget her......fast....

Brighty righty said, cut contact and wait for her to contact you....
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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