"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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suddenly she's acting all stuck up

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I had this conversation with this girl on msn just now. She seemed to be interested 3 days ago. But now she seems to be cold. Three days ago she wanted to call me and talk late night and today she is acting like a stuck up B****. I know for a fact that she was interested before.

Me: Hey
Her: Heeeeeyyyyyy
Me: what's up sheep head (inside joke)
Her: nothing
Me: that sounds fun, can I join?
Her: **** you
Her: no you can't
Me: ok
Her: go give others (she means have sex with other women)
Me: I can do nothing myself, without you
Me: give others what?
Her: yes you can
Her: don't try to be nice
Her: and don't act stupid
Me: haha I said I can do it without you
Me: im not acting stupid, what do u mean?
Me: damn you're slow
Me: you didn't understand what I meant
Her: hhaahha
Her: you're slow
Me: ok I'm slow
Me: don't talk to me
Her: piss off
Her: **** you
Me: sure
Her: goooooooooood

She then went offline

I don't know why she's acting this way. maybe because I didn't contact her within 3 days after she wanted to call me. usually she is not like this.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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1. You didnt let her call you. Why the **** wouldnt you let her call? 2. You just called her a sheep head. No wonder she flipped. Your not being serious, she thinks your wasting her time.
 
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I didn't "let her call me" because she sent me a text and I saw it 30 minutes later - I replied and she told me she wanted to call me but she can't now because she was going to sleep.
 
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Then just ignore her. And block her msn. Shes obviously crazy.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She was testing you and you failed horribly. Why are you reacting to her and explaining yourself to her??? She's trying to see if she can push your buttons and now that she knows she can you can expect a steady diet of this from now until you stop talking to her. This is how women are...hot one day and cold the next. You gotta adapt to it and show her you could care less about her stupid little mood. You acted very stupid and your answers were corny. Next time just be playful and don't be so random.

Examples:

Her: and don't act stupid.
You: I tend to tailor my intelligence level to that of the person I'm speaking too. :)

Her: **** you
You: No thanks! I only do that with women who've had all their shots!

Her: Nothing
You: Did you see what happened on.........(change the subject)
 
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