"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Suddenly not interested in sex. Wtf is going on?

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Up until last year I was one of the horniest guys out there. Hitting on every cute girl in all my classes, would go cold approaching, club-gaming, etc.

I met my first girlfriend through a cold approach last summer and lost my V to her. Once I started having sex I realized that it's boring and no big deal. I started to lose my interest in sex. She is a good-looking girl with a toned body, and she's extremely cool for a girl. I have no plans on breaking up with her. Trust me, if she was boring or low value I would be banging girls left and right; I go to one one of the top party schools in the nation.

I just spent a whole school year with many, many girls and sloots available, yet I stuck with my girlfriend. Not only because I have yet to meet a girl I vibe with more, but because I don't crave sex. I see a 9/10 and I think about how nice it would be to bang her for about two seconds...and then I'm like, "Meh. No big deal."

So in short, I don't crave sex with my girlfriend OR other girls.

Is it because sex truly isn't that great? A lot of the girls here are average and slightly above average. So is it possible that I'm satisfied with my girlfriend because she's hotter than most girls? I'm also tired sometimes. Maybe a medical condition? I am very aggressive and commanding though, so I don't think it's low T.

Looking for input from anyone. Maybe some guys here have experienced this before.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm not a therapist but....maybe girls don't turn you on anymore?

Is this a LTR now? If so, it's one-itis.

Break up with your GF or you will regret the best years of your life.
 
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1. Stop watching porn if you are.....especially fapping to porn.

2. Get to the gym, lift heavy to stimulate testosterone.

3. Lose body fat.

4. Ensure you have plenty of zinc, magnesium, vitamin D3 in your diet all of which contribute to testosterone production.

5. Experiment sexually with her.
 
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Big Nuts said:
1. Stop watching porn if you are.....especially fapping to porn.

2. Get to the gym, lift heavy to stimulate testosterone.

3. Lose body fat.

4. Ensure you have plenty of zinc, magnesium, vitamin D3 in your diet all of which contribute to testosterone production.

5. Experiment sexually with her.
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It won't help. He has been gay already.

Go home and play with your nuts :eek: :moon:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BrownBear said:
Congratulations, you have turned gay officially.
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Yes, I can confirm, I would rather have a nice clean wiener in my mouth.


Not serious....
 
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OC Speedball said:
Yes, I can confirm, I would rather have a nice clean wiener in my mouth.


Not serious....
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Not serious but sincere, right?

I understand, man. Nothing to be ashamed at ;)

FAGGOT :moon: :moon: :moon:
 
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You could be over-worked which lowers sex drive as you suspect yourself. Ask her to do most of the work and go for BJs instead.
Look for more diet balance and exercise with all this free time you now have and see the changes in drive.

Cutting your desire for sex and not keeping your energy high will have a bad effect on your self-esteem as you will feel too tired/lazy to do anything!

Im not convinced your satisfied, I think your tired and bored of the relationship.
 
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