Suddenly not interested in sex. Wtf is going on?

[OC Speedball]

Up until last year I was one of the horniest guys out there. Hitting on every cute girl in all my classes, would go cold approaching, club-gaming, etc.

I met my first girlfriend through a cold approach last summer and lost my V to her. Once I started having sex I realized that it's boring and no big deal. I started to lose my interest in sex. She is a good-looking girl with a toned body, and she's extremely cool for a girl. I have no plans on breaking up with her. Trust me, if she was boring or low value I would be banging girls left and right; I go to one one of the top party schools in the nation.

I just spent a whole school year with many, many girls and sloots available, yet I stuck with my girlfriend. Not only because I have yet to meet a girl I vibe with more, but because I don't crave sex. I see a 9/10 and I think about how nice it would be to bang her for about two seconds...and then I'm like, "Meh. No big deal."

So in short, I don't crave sex with my girlfriend OR other girls.

Is it because sex truly isn't that great? A lot of the girls here are average and slightly above average. So is it possible that I'm satisfied with my girlfriend because she's hotter than most girls? I'm also tired sometimes. Maybe a medical condition? I am very aggressive and commanding though, so I don't think it's low T.

Looking for input from anyone. Maybe some guys here have experienced this before.

 

[BeDJ]

I'm not a therapist but....maybe girls don't turn you on anymore?

Is this a LTR now? If so, it's one-itis.

Break up with your GF or you will regret the best years of your life.

 

[BrownBear]

Congratulations, you have turned gay officially. :cheer:

 

[Big Nuts]

1. Stop watching porn if you are.....especially fapping to porn.

2. Get to the gym, lift heavy to stimulate testosterone.

3. Lose body fat.

4. Ensure you have plenty of zinc, magnesium, vitamin D3 in your diet all of which contribute to testosterone production.

5. Experiment sexually with her.

 

[BrownBear]

1. Stop watching porn if you are.....especially fapping to porn.

2. Get to the gym, lift heavy to stimulate testosterone.

3. Lose body fat.

4. Ensure you have plenty of zinc, magnesium, vitamin D3 in your diet all of which contribute to testosterone production.

5. Experiment sexually with her.

It won't help. He has been gay already.

Go home and play with your nuts :moon:

 

[OC Speedball]

Congratulations, you have turned gay officially.

Yes, I can confirm, I would rather have a nice clean wiener in my mouth.


Not serious....

 

[BrownBear]

Yes, I can confirm, I would rather have a nice clean wiener in my mouth.


Not serious....

Not serious but sincere, right?

I understand, man. Nothing to be ashamed at

FAGGOT :moon: :moon: :moon:

 

[DragonBlood]

You could be over-worked which lowers sex drive as you suspect yourself. Ask her to do most of the work and go for BJs instead.
Look for more diet balance and exercise with all this free time you now have and see the changes in drive.

Cutting your desire for sex and not keeping your energy high will have a bad effect on your self-esteem as you will feel too tired/lazy to do anything!

Im not convinced your satisfied, I think your tired and bored of the relationship.