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Suddenly low sex drive (is it caused by COVID pandemic?)

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Start gambling and lose some serious money. You will have a sex drive like a maniac because you feel bad and need release to feel better.
 

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Start gambling and lose some serious money. You will have a sex drive like a maniac because you feel bad and need release to feel better.
Possibly true, but it's safe to say it's far from worth it. It's what I would call an extremely bad idea.
 

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Possibly true, but it's safe to say it's far from worth it. It's what I would call an extremely bad idea.
I lost $650 at the casino the other day and all I wanted to do was bang after walking out and seeing a asian girl walking looking a bit down.
Even the girls who lose hate themselves and wanna go to bang town too.

A date consisting of gambling, then pizza and chocolate at home and then bang time is perfect. You don't have to go and lose hundreds of dollars every day. People including women get the gambling spike losing $20 or even $5 playing a online poker tournament. It depends on the person. You wanna make yourself feel a little bad so find a right amount and lose it.
 
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Start gambling and lose some serious money. You will have a sex drive like a maniac because you feel bad and need release to feel better.
When you win money your sex drive goes up too . There's some connection between gambling and sex drive. I know cause i've played poker and stocks for 20 yrs.
 

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When you win money your sex drive goes up too . There's some connection between gambling and sex drive. I know cause i've played poker and stocks for 20 yrs.
Now i know why my sex drive was sky high as a Teenager in school.. i had so bad Grades that i gambled with my life.
 

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Has anyone else here had a sudden dip in sex drive? Apparently this can be a sign of serious health problems. But I'm wondering if it's just environment.

I'm 30 and have always had a normal sex drive. Until this summer, I was living south of the equator, in a country with no COVID problem (so no closures), with young and gorgeous women walking around every time I stepped outside.

I flew back to US, and with the COVID restrictions I've just stayed with my parents. I've been here a few months and have physically seen exactly two girls (when I say "see", I literally mean see with my eyes; I didn't come within 10 meters of them).

A few weeks after getting back, my sex drive suddenly dropped. Instead of 2-3 times a week, I can whack off maybe 1-2 times. I try watching porn but sometimes get bored/uninterested and stop; this is very unusual for me.

I remember one of the girls I saw was at the poll's on election day. It was like my brain fired up and screamed "fertile female" and I felt different. Anyways, I'm checking here to see if any other guys have had a similar drop in sex drive due to isolation during COVID? Maybe if I go back to a normal environment with girls around, I'll jump back to normal. Or should I be alarmed at my change?
yes.....normally I’m out and about... going for drinks once or twice a week. With covid that stopped. If I’m not paying attention I go to work.. come home, workout, do cardio, eat... go to bed. The second I actually interact with an attractive female ( without a mask) my drive goes insane!
 

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Agree with you on the porn. I very rarely watch it these days. It doesn't bring the same level of enjoyment that it once did ~15 years ago when I was far less experienced. Now if I do it its almost more out of sheer boredom.
I refuse to watch porn. Lower T isn't a good idea. I heard Modern Life Dating talking about sex and going limp after watching porn in mid pump. As in, real life is severed by porn with real women. He complained about low testosterone. Try cutting it off completely.
 

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Its low socialization that slow downs our engine generally, libido included.

Think of hermits that basically have no sex drive at all despite living in the nature stress free without eating junk food or sugars.

I kid you not last summer I was at the swimming pool talking with two russian girls for 20 minutes and had a 20 minutes erection...nowadays stuck at home alone cant even get a decent load when I manage to fap.
 

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There's some connection between gambling and sex drive.
Perhaps a link between risk-taking behavior and sex drive. I know testosterone increases both.

Its low socialization that slow downs our engine generally, libido included.
Two more ideas came to mind.
1) Low socialization -> lowered immune system -> perhaps lower T?
2) Women have a lower chance of ovulating when they're not around men (Source: some research cited by Dr. Robin Baker). Perhaps the similar effect reduces male sex-drive when not around women. It seems plausible and agrees with anecdotal evidence.

The second I actually interact with an attractive female ( without a mask) my drive goes insane!
My drive shoots up either way - mask never bothered me. I remember a work trip to Tokyo where I did a lot of daygame. Japanese people wear face masks, even before coronavirus, and it was common to see a girl with a mask who looked potentially hot. I'd stop her anyways, and I noticed that I never aborted mission despite some disappointing faces. First-hand evidence on the difference between male sexuality "bang as much as possible" vs. female sexuality "bang only the best you can get".
 

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I refuse to watch porn. Lower T isn't a good idea. I heard Modern Life Dating talking about sex and going limp after watching porn in mid pump. As in, real life is severed by porn with real women. He complained about low testosterone. Try cutting it off completely.
I cut porn and mbate years ago. It does make you more aggressive in day game. It might also in night game, but day game by definition is a more difficult form of approaching because it is done sober.

All good things happen from a testosterone and a motivation standpoint with no porn, no mbate, a healthy diet, and regular exercise.

At age 30, @xuzaki, you should be out in real life doing approaches on women 18-29. Being isolated indoors all day even without porn and mbate isn't ideal for testosterone and sex drive.
 

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I cut porn and mbate years ago. It does make you more aggressive in day game. It might also in night game, but day game by definition is a more difficult form of approaching because it is done sober.

All good things happen from a testosterone and a motivation standpoint with no porn, no mbate, a healthy diet, and regular exercise.

At age 30, @xuzaki, you should be out in real life doing approaches on women 18-29. Being isolated indoors all day even without porn and mbate isn't ideal for testosterone and sex drive.
I still fap. I also like the money shot with college girls. Blowing on a college girls face and in her mouth is a good time. I agree. I am doing more deloads in my exercise program. I have virtually did zero weights on 2020. All calisthenics. No porn. My mate was telling me how he had to tell his hot young gf that he doesn't want to smash atm. He wants to hold onto the T, lift, and shred. Not be lulled into cherish mode. Most fellas are checker out.
 

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I still fap. I also like the money shot with college girls. Blowing on a college girls face and in her mouth is a good time. I agree. I am doing more deloads in my exercise program. I have virtually did zero weights on 2020. All calisthenics. No porn. My mate was telling me how he had to tell his hot young gf that he doesn't want to smash atm. He wants to hold onto the T, lift, and shred. Not be lulled into cherish mode. Most fellas are checker out.
Having sex is good for testosterone. Ejaculating during sex is fine.

I usually ejaculate inside the woman's vag in a condom. Women in their late 20s and beyond seem to really like the internal ejaculation. Each woman is different as to where she likes the load most. Most women are fine with an internal load, even fertile 18-19 year olds. In my early 20s, I was briefly with a woman who was around 30 who liked it best on her face.

Most women I've been with over time has been in no rush to have children and have been using birth control. I have been exceptional about using condoms. That's how I've made it to 37 and not had kids.

Having sex with increase sex drive.
 

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Having sex is good for testosterone. Ejaculating during sex is fine.

I usually ejaculate inside the woman's vag in a condom. Women in their late 20s and beyond seem to really like the internal ejaculation. Each woman is different as to where she likes the load most. Most women are fine with an internal load, even fertile 18-19 year olds. In my early 20s, I was briefly with a woman who was around 30 who liked it best on her face.

Most women I've been with over time has been in no rush to have children and have been using birth control. I have been exceptional about using condoms. That's how I've made it to 37 and not had kids.

Having sex with increase sex drive.
I am super cautious. Overly. You can't get her throat or ******* pregnant lulz.

The mitigation of children is attempt to block the wall but its delusional. The clock is ticking for us all. Women have a shorter shelf life than us boys.

The amount of left over waman is going to be a barron wasteland. Cat ladies everywhere. Trolling as a hobby. Enjoy the decline fellas. Pillage what you can.
 
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