"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Suddenly lost 60% of my income for good.

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My other questions are what is stopping you from finding a second job again OR starting a private practice? What is stopping you from moving INSIDE Mexico? Another city and work 2 jobs? I can't believe you are just willing to take it lying down.
Oh no, don't get me wrong, nothing stops me from finding another job, in fact I'm on my way to a job interview right now.
What stops me from moving out is that I don't want to be far away from my three children and that I don't want that they spend more time with their crazy BPD wh0re mother.
 

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Hi, I think you are spending way too much money on your kids education but that´s not for me to judge. Can´t you move to another state with your kids without the mother? Maybe that would be a legal pain.
I guess you can cut down on expenses and send your kids to a decent yet cheaper school?
You have some options! is not like you can´t make money in Mexico with your job or start a business
 

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Pull your kids out of UNIVA and send them to public school like the rest of Mexico.

Private schools in Mexico are bullsh1t, I used to teach in them... they are over priced crap farms where the teachers really could care less. Half the time the teachers show up they check their messages for 30 minutes, write something on the board and take off for an early lunch. The kids are a bunch of spoiled sh1t bags and don't bother attending anyway, I guess they get it from their parents.

You could save 20k per month by getting your kids a library card.
 
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