"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sudden Stop Of Contact After Another Great Night

StoneCold

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I been Seeing this girl for nearly 2 months now!!!

i see her once or maybe twice a week and usually she comes over and spends the whole night with me, and we have amazing times :yes:

we go to great places and have amazing times togthere..

the usual way we plan things is by text and she would respond to my texts

we been having incredible times and i am so sure that she really really likes me.

i really like her and my feelings are all over the place when im away from her
but im always gaming the right way and use the no calling, and text often rule alot to keep her excited and attracted..

last night we spent togthere was incredible . i dropped her off to her station and she told me shes going to meet her friend, whos come over from sweden..

after that day i sent her a nice text but now she hasnt replyed and its totally killing me ..

i cant concentrate and dont know whats going on.....

but i know for sure that she really really likes me

**** this waiting game thingy is ****ing stupid and im getting so anoyyed
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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eastenders

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Real coincidence, I was about to post a similar thread when I read this.

I recently hooked up over FaceBook with this girl I hadnt seen in four years and i was at college with. After a lot of unfortunate attempts at meeting we eventually hooked up and had a great meal.

Half way through the meal she confessed how nervous she'd been as she'd thought of the evening as a date, rather than the simple catch up that I thought it was, as we hadnt seen each other in so long and didnt really know each other that well.

At the end of the evening all the signs were good and so I asked her out on a proper date, proper to me, second date to her.

We had the most fantastic evening, all the signs were right, kino, body language, phone calls, closing, I mean everythign was perfect and I organised a third date on that night for a week later.

A few days before the next date I phoned her no reply.

As is standard practice for me, I waited until after 9pm the following day and called again - no reply. She then called back to say she couldnt have answered my last call as she was driving and there had been police behind her. I asked if she was still driving and she said yes. I said to call me back when she wasnt driving as I didnt want to be responsible for any major accidents!

Well she never called back and the date we arranged has long since past.

its the not knowing that bothers me and the fact that everything was SO fine before hand and that she even phoned me back that last time and I now wish I hadnt said call me back later.

Shes definitly alive and chatting away to other friends on Facebook though!

Any thoughts?
 

eastenders

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Real coincidence, I was about to post a similar thread when I read this.

I recently hooked up over FaceBook with this girl I hadnt seen in four years and i was at college with. After a lot of unfortunate attempts at meeting we eventually hooked up and had a great meal.

Half way through the meal she confessed how nervous she'd been as she'd thought of the evening as a date, rather than the simple catch up that I thought it was, as we hadnt seen each other in so long and didnt really know each other that well.

At the end of the evening all the signs were good and so I asked her out on a proper date, proper to me, second date to her.

We had the most fantastic evening, all the signs were right, kino, body language, phone calls, closing, I mean everythign was perfect and I organised a third date on that night for a week later.

A few days before the next date I phoned her no reply.

As is standard practice for me, I waited until after 9pm the following day and called again - no reply. She then called back to say she couldnt have answered my last call as she was driving and there had been police behind her. I asked if she was still driving and she said yes. I said to call me back when she wasnt driving as I didnt want to be responsible for any major accidents!

Well she never called back and the date we arranged has long since past.

its the not knowing that bothers me and the fact that everything was SO fine before hand and that she even phoned me back that last time and I now wish I hadnt said call me back later.

Shes definitly alive and chatting away to other friends on Facebook though!

Any thoughts?
 

Ryan69

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she told me shes going to meet her friend, whos come over from sweden..

The guy from sweden must have been hot
 

thatguyjamalx

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Stonecold, just be patient & give it a day or two, if she's into you as much as she says she is, then just keep the ball rolling.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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