"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sudden no reply: playing hard to get or starting to flake?

women haze

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nismo-4 said:
1. Nothing in life is etched in stone.

2. Dinner dates are for chicks you've f**ked. It's female companionship at best, money spent on false hope at worst otherwise. There are dates that don't cost a lot or nothing, yet that creativity will win great points.

Disagree...

you don't have to f@@k them before taking them out to dinner...If you actively pre qualify a chick beforehand, there is nothing wrong with taking a woman out to eat.

Maybe we need to have a sticky for pre dinner date ideas.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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women haze said:
Disagree...

you don't have to f@@k them before taking them out to dinner...If you actively pre qualify a chick beforehand, there is nothing wrong with taking a woman out to eat.

Maybe we need to have a sticky for pre dinner date ideas.
I don't get why people would spend money on any broad if they don't know what the pu$$y even feels like.

My only exception is if she is a DIME. 10 in the looks and 10 by her personality.
 

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
I don't get why people would spend money on any broad if they don't know what the pu$$y even feels like.

My only exception is if she is a DIME. 10 in the looks and 10 by her personality.
This is a mistake IMO. A chick that awesome gets that kinda treatment everywhere. I somewhat agree with the first part of your comment - although buying them drinks is fine if you've already hooked up and you're looking to escalate. I don't buy drinks for randoms.

FYI the girl this thread concerns is around a 6.5/10 looks, 8/10 other stuff. My scales are pretty strict so 6.5 is a respectable rating.
 
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