"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sudden Disinterest

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Hello friends. I never thought I would be asking a question like this again, but here I am.

I'll spare useless details and get to it. Theres a girl who has been showing me a lot of interest over the past few weeks. She was always trying to strike up a conversation, following me around, laying all over me (good times :D) During this time, I wasnt showing her too much interest myself (trying to keep that DJ mindset)

Anyway, I finally asked her to homecoming. She said yes, but ever since, her interest level has dropped. She's not ignoring me or anything, but she's been noticably colder over the past few days.

Has my sudden interest pushed her off or is this one giant sh*t test? My instict tells me to pull away and let her come back.

Any thoughts? Much appreciated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She thinks shes got you, and so the grand "chase" after you is over...but your about to change all that aren't you?

Be spontaneous, unpredictable! Keep her guessing! Which will ultimately mean higher IL in you!!

And yea, my first instinct would be to pull away for her for abit too. Push/pull technique.


Good luck bro!
 
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Yeah that's the way. She might be wondering why you are not trying to keep her.
 
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