Sudden Disinterest

[WalkingStick]

Hello friends. I never thought I would be asking a question like this again, but here I am.

I'll spare useless details and get to it. Theres a girl who has been showing me a lot of interest over the past few weeks. She was always trying to strike up a conversation, following me around, laying all over me (good times ) During this time, I wasnt showing her too much interest myself (trying to keep that DJ mindset)

Anyway, I finally asked her to homecoming. She said yes, but ever since, her interest level has dropped. She's not ignoring me or anything, but she's been noticably colder over the past few days.

Has my sudden interest pushed her off or is this one giant sh*t test? My instict tells me to pull away and let her come back.

Any thoughts? Much appreciated.

 

[Triple T]

She thinks shes got you, and so the grand "chase" after you is over...but your about to change all that aren't you?

Be spontaneous, unpredictable! Keep her guessing! Which will ultimately mean higher IL in you!!

And yea, my first instinct would be to pull away for her for abit too. Push/pull technique.


Good luck bro!

 

[Nivre]

Yeah that's the way. She might be wondering why you are not trying to keep her.