"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sudden Disinterest

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I've been messing around with this girl for a few weeks. Everything was going smooth. She was calling me around 3 times a week and seemed pretty happy to see me whenever we passed in school. Then two weeks ago I called her and she said she was at the beach. I said alright, I'll call you back later and we'll do something. I was busy so I didn't call, but it was no big deal.

Since then though, I've called her twice, neither time did she pick up. She stopped calling, too. Whenever I talk to her in school she seems really distant. We used to be all over each other. What the hell happened here?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gona be brutally honest bro

She probably has the idea in her head that she's been there done that and wants something else. How's her reputation? Is she a girl that is known to give it up easily? Rocko may be right; your window closed because you didn't make the move soon enough (I'm assuming you haven't had sex).

Not to worry though, this has happend to me a few times. She's not totally disinterested, she's just wanting something new. Chances are, shes found a new guy who can fill the gap. Don't get mad about it, do something about it.

Start talking to some other girls, and put her on the backburner for awhile. If she still has any interest in you, then she'll surely question what you're doing with other girls. Thats when you need to make your move and really sweep this girl off her feet. Change up whatever you did before and bring her something new.
 
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Yeah, I was going really slowly with her. We've messed around, but we hadn't had sex yet. Though I'm not even sure why. I know she's not a virgin, so I should have sped things up. No big deal, though.

The thing is, I've got 2 days of school left. Her interest dropped way down, so I doubt she'd want to chill over the summer, but we'll see.
 
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Wolve said:
I've been messing around with this girl for a few weeks. Everything was going smooth. She was calling me around 3 times a week and seemed pretty happy to see me whenever we passed in school. Then two weeks ago I called her and she said she was at the beach. I said alright, I'll call you back later and we'll do something. I was busy so I didn't call, but it was no big deal.

Since then though, I've called her twice, neither time did she pick up. She stopped calling, too. Whenever I talk to her in school she seems really distant. We used to be all over each other. What the hell happened here?
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How do I get THIS SPECIFIC girl: Useless Thread #10

:up: Job Moderators!

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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B-Lemond said:
How do I get THIS SPECIFIC girl: Useless Thread #10

:up: Job Moderators!

:rolleyes:
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Dont you have something better to do?
 
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