"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sudden Decline in Confidence

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I'm having a hard time explaining this one. Over the past two months, I've experienced a precipitous decline in confidence. I feel like I'm not as good looking, I'm not looking people in the eye anymore, I feel a bit "down" and mellow. Just kind of sluggish.

Oddly, I'm working at a new job which I like and money is not the huge problem it was just a couple months ago. I haven't been exercising recently, but then again, I've only gained like two or three pounds max. I feel like I "look" older than before, although I doubt my appearance has changed much in a couple of weeks.

Anyone experience something similar to this? I'm wondering if it's the cold weather clime I'm in now?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It's mainly, due to the lack of excersise.
 
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It happens to me sometimes too my friend. The best cure is to suck it up and go do a cold approach somewhere. Get some new clothes some nice shoes and just do it.

And don't just do 1 if you get rejected do them until you get a #. Because after you get 1 number it's like a crackhead getting a hit. You will want more #'s and your confidence goes UP.

I usually have pretty good luck hitting on cashiers and workers at Wal-Mart. Don't ask me why. All the ladies at my local Wal-Mart know me and one who I hit on is married says she wants to hook me up with her friend.

Just get out there and introduce yourself you never ever know what could happen. She might be taken but has a friend. If you are smooth girls can be very friendly.

All I did was say Hi make small talk ask her name and shake her hand and ask for the number. Just try and do it when they are slow.
 
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