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And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Sudden bloating (water retention?)

Jariel

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My abs are generally in decent shape, yet some days I wake up and my belly is bloated and flabby. It's always right at the bottom of my belly and love handles.

I am guessing it's subcutaneous water retention because it comes and goes almost overnight sometimes.

I'd like to know what causes it and how I can stop it from happening? Do excess carbs cause a gain in water weight? Generally, can anyone enlighten me.

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If your belly is flabby it's probably fat, unless you go from donut cop at night to ripped mr.6 pack in the morning, in which case I don't even know what your concern is.

Creatine also causes water retention, so does drinking lots of milk.
 

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If your belly is flabby it's probably fat, unless you go from donut cop at night to ripped mr.6 pack in the morning, in which case I don't even know what your concern is.
Hmm, well at night, I look slightly bloated, and my abs are far less visible, whereas in the morning, I look much more ripped. I don't drink milk by the way, tho I drink quite a lot of water. I guess this is a common thing, looking more bloated and less cut at night?

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Happens to me since I was a kid. When I was 8-yrs-old, I used to be almost 25 lbs underweight and you could see my bones, yet I had a huge belly who was as hard as hell.

Last year I was 8% bodyfat and I used to have visible veins in my arms and a 8-pack, but sometimes my belly would show up and cover my belly.

Now I care less about it because I know there's not much I can do about it.

Probably, in order to get rid of that, you should go as low as 7% bodyfat, but I don't know if that's worth enough, unless you're already pretty muscular.
 

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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jariel

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Hmmm, I woke up today and was back in decent shape again?!

Anyway, thanks for the feedback.

Warboss Alex said:
what did you eat yesterday? (prebed meal especially)
I don't remember exactly, but I did have (oven) chips in one meal, then had chicken with potatoes in my pre-bed meal. Maybe a little too many carbs or starchy foods, and I did boil the potatoes with a bit of salt so maybe too much salt.
 

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If it changes every day or every other day it's slim that it's fat. I'd focus on looking into your digestive system.
 

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Ive noticed that with myself, but its ussually cuz i need to take a crap, once i do, my abs look more formed. haha.

yea.

so take a crap :-D
 
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