"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sucks being only 17

Sneevox

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All of my friends are in their 20's (yes, this means I score with older women... because of this site. ha.), and they all went out clubbing. The club doesn't ID, but I decided not to take the chance and went home. Now I'm bored and alone.

Anything else you can think of that sucks about not being 18?

I can name a few.

-no legal tobacco
-no renting apartments, hotels, etc.
-no clubbing
-legally bound to parents's rules
-etc.

At least it's only like half a year away! :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i'm actually quite successful and i woudl give every dime in my bank account to switch places with you right now
 

Alle_Gory

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Sneevox said:
All of my friends are in their 20's (yes, this means I score with older women... because of this site. ha.), and they all went out clubbing. The club doesn't ID, but I decided not to take the chance and went home. Now I'm bored and alone.
Why are you bored and alone? Can't you do anything else but club? That sounds pretty boring.

-no legal tobacco
Boo hoo. You can't get cancer, yellow teeth and a terrible smell, and a hole in your wallet for all that. Cry me a river.

-no renting apartments, hotels, etc.
All right. This you're right to complain about. This sucks.

-no clubbing
Boo hoo. You're missing out on all the skanks and expensive booze.

-legally bound to parents's rules
Not morally bound though.
 

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Life doesn't really start until you get 30k + a year.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why are all your friends in their 20s? Dont you have any high school friends?
 

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But you can sign up and enlist in the army today, and risk your life over in our lovely bases in Afghanistan.

USA! USA! USA!
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Social_Leper said:
30k?

Where do you live? 1962?

Seriously though, 30k ain't too bad if you have no debt and live in a cheap area. Otherwise it won't really get you far at all.
Just an estimate. But I have no children. Only debt is school loans!
 

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ArcBound said:
But you can sign up and enlist in the army today, and risk your life over in our lovely bases in Afghanistan.

USA! USA! USA!
WERE NUMBR 1! WERE NUMBR 1!
 

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Sneevox said:
-no legal tobacco
Man stop smoking before you can buy cigs yourself. Guarantee you'll get hooked for real.

Sneevox said:
-no renting apartments, hotels, etc.
Kind of sucks, but at 17 I bet you have no clue what's really involved in getting your own place. Yes, it's a hell of a lot better then living with your parents but theres also a lot of responsibility/bull**** to deal with...especially apartments with multiple units.


Sneevox said:
-legally bound to parents's rules
Haha I'll give you this one. Just gotta grin and bare it for now.


How about the positives?
- Don't have to come up with rent every month
- Don't have to pay electric/gas/tv/internet bills every month
- don't have to pay car payemnts/maintenace
- No real responsibility - you can do whatever you want with your free time!
- You can do something dumb and its "OK" because you're young where as if you got in a few years from now you're expected to know better
- Home cooked meals!
- Mom does all the cleanning around the house
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I actually don't smoke cigarettes. I smoke cigars/pipe tobacco when its given to me.
Cigs are fvcking nasty.
 

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Sir Psycho Sexy said:
Why are all your friends in their 20s? Dont you have any high school friends?
I've tried to hang out with kids in high school, but that's just it.
I'm beyond my age in wisdom, which is egotistical to say, and these kids literally look like children in my eyes. I can't stand to be around them. All they want to do is vandalize sh!t or smoke weed (I can be okay with the second option on occasion).

It's just boring to me. I'd rather hang with people who have fun in... fun ways.
 
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