"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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such a thing as too much humor?

face2003

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The last couple of times ive been to the mall ive approached a couple of beautiful girls ranging from 8.5 - 9.5. Every single one of them i had almost crying in laughter. But, when i asked for the #, i got denied on every single one of them...I dont know what happened. Wassup?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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CableLight

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Dunno the details of your situation, but yeah, there's such a thing as using too much humor. You come off as a dork who can't be taken seriously.
 

SnatchJP

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keep in mind that humor is a good tool, but, like all good tools, it shouldn't be relied on exclusively. Use other techniques (Kino, active listening, c/f, neg-hits, etc etc.) And make sure she knows you're interested right from the start.
 

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Maybe you havent developed a close enough connection or make yourself out to be a clown.
 

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mayeb you are trying to "entertain" the chicks too much and not trying to show that you are "showing your values" try easing off the jokes and stuff and don't change states too quick.
I think when the conversation dies down is when you go in for the number with something like

face2003: Damn this was fun, we should do this again sometime... What's ya #?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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alright, can do. Thanks dudes for the help, i shall try it the next time i get a chance :)
 
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