Successful with women and unemployed?

[latino158]

Let's say you are unemployed but have a savings account, I mean you are not broke, just currently unemployed

would you lie to her about your job situation? or would you say the truth? how would you go about saying it so it doesnt sound you are low status?

the question, "what do u do for living", will come up sooner or later ... the way I see it is best to lie

why ? because she is not your girlfriend just yet, and just because you are approaching her or going out on a date with her, doesn't guarantee she will become your girlfriend, so there is nothing wrong with saying

"I do this for a living" you could say, you work on call or part time

So, what if she ends up being your girlfriend, then the chances of her finding out you are unemployed increases, so then you can mantain the lie for a few weeks and then tell her that you just lost your job .. nothing wrong with that because she is already your girl, and if she dumps you just because u said u lost your job, then she is not good for you anyways

Some people may say, dont lie, but I say, unles she is already your girlfriend, she would never be able to find out if you are actually employed or not, is not like she is going to ask you for the address or phone number of your job, and check ifyou actually work there or not ... is not like she is your girlfriend to have any right over you, is not like she is going to move in with you to find out what you do all day

So, you lie and say you are employed, and you maitain the lie untill you find a REAL JOB, if you can't find a real job, and she is already your girlfriend, then you can play it off by saying that your company was cutting corners, and they let you go, the fact that the economy sucks, will make it even more believable, and then you say, "but dont worry i'm looking for another job and i have good savings for this situation"

 

[synergy1]

lets make one thing clear ; the current US economy is very difficult to get a job. many qualified people are finding nothing but frustration. Go read my older posts if you want a more in depth look at it. That said, I honestly see no reason to lie about it.

My background in a nut shell. I was unemployed engineer who was living at home and basically couch surfing. I got with a lot of girls in that time period. All of them I leveled with them that I was unemployed. my presentation wasn't that of some teenage pothead who couldn't hold a job, but of someone who has worked before and would again. It didn't hurt that I had worked at my own business for a year.

If you are a person of worth, it will show if you have a job or not. A job doesn't make you. How you carry yourself, how you interact with others, and your core person matter more to women than an office you show up to. With that in mind, remember that unemployment is temporary.

Take the time to get better at something. I would wake up at 7am and practice hockey stick handling for an hour. take time to learn something new. I would spend hours at the library reading about the stock market and investing. The process has probably gotten me an MBA's worth of knowledge. Unemployment can have opportunities too. Take advantage of it.

It sucks. If you have more questions, feel free to PM me.

 

[Diaforetikos]

lets make one thing clear ; the current US economy is very difficult to get a job. many qualified people are finding nothing but frustration. Go read my older posts if you want a more in depth look at it. That said, I honestly see no reason to lie about it.

My background in a nut shell. I was unemployed engineer who was living at home and basically couch surfing. I got with a lot of girls in that time period. All of them I leveled with them that I was unemployed. my presentation wasn't that of some teenage pothead who couldn't hold a job, but of someone who has worked before and would again. It didn't hurt that I had worked at my own business for a year.

If you are a person of worth, it will show if you have a job or not. A job doesn't make you. How you carry yourself, how you interact with others, and your core person matter more to women than an office you show up to. With that in mind, remember that unemployment is temporary.

Take the time to get better at something. I would wake up at 7am and practice hockey stick handling for an hour. take time to learn something new. I would spend hours at the library reading about the stock market and investing. The process has probably gotten me an MBA's worth of knowledge. Unemployment can have opportunities too. Take advantage of it.

It sucks. If you have more questions, feel free to PM me.

You said everything I was gonna basically say.

If your a hard worker, your personality shows it. Don't lie about. That just means your insecure.

 

[bigneil]

What happens is, not having a job hurts your self esteem and that indirectly hurts your chances with women. Hang in there.

 

[Vice]

Get a f*cking job dude.

Better yet, create one for yourself.

I'm so sick of seeing "waaaahhh there's no jobs waaaahhh". Don't be dependent on other people for jobs. You need to get out there and make sh*t happen for yourself.

Learn the stock market. Learn real estate investing. Learn how to mow lawns. Create a computer repair business that specialized in having cute girls come to your house to fix your computer. Write and market an ebook.

For gods sake, don't just sit around and b*tch when there's so much opportunity out there.