"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Anargyros

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This forum has become a pit of depression and sadness lately. Seriously, I need to believe in something to keep myself alive.

Are any guys out there engaged in successful relationships, maybe even married for years, that want to share their stories?. Have you had kids? Have you formed a family?

Really, just positive stuff... "I've been married for 10 years and I have two kids, I love my family"... otherwise I'll go nuts.

Share your story please. Lets make a positive thread.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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guru1000

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I got married; then divorced. THE END.
 

Epimanes

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I am married... 2 kids (16 and 10) been with my hunneh for 20 years (yup do the math I was 16 she was 15) had a rough patch for a few years (wife had an ea of sorts but never followed through cuz I was such a beta) after 2nd kid came.. Got my good alpha back.. Thanks to Sosuave, marriedmansexlife, and marriagebuilders plus some psychotherapy for us both) Reattracted my wife and boom.. We are still together and happier than I can ever remember. Looking back the EA was no where near as bad as some.. I kinda over reacted. But it kicked my azz and got the ball rolling to where we are today.

Epi
 

captain55

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I don't believe in long term relationships....I believe in sleeping with as many attractive women as possible, while remaining on the best terms with as many of those attractive women as possible so I can use them for what I want (sex) as long as possible....Unfortunately in order for that to happen, you need to get into relationships.
 

Anargyros

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captain55 said:
I don't believe in long term relationships....I believe in sleeping with as many attractive women as possible, while remaining on the best terms with as many of those attractive women as possible so I can use them for what I want (sex) as long as possible....Unfortunately in order for that to happen, you need to get into relationships.
One of the reasons that made me create this post was this:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=221858

So, no, you want a LTR as much as I do
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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