“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Successful gym approach

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I approach anyone any time because I just like talking to people. Sometimes it's a fat dude, sometimes it's an attractive chick that a few years ago I'd **** my pants to talk to. If you make it a habit to cold open anyone, it's super super natural.

I was doing pendlay rows (gotta get those lats bro) 5x5 70kg because I'm just getting back into lifting after everything being closed and such.

hb looks at me not once, but twice (this is enough IOI, usually. If they want to signal not being interested they will not look twice).

She was doing perfect form pull-ups and I was honestly impressed, so I just asked if she was a gymnast, turns out she's a sprinter, 21. I said "that's a lot of pullups for a runner" And we spoke in between sets for a good 20 minutes. A lot of IOIs, giggly, very close to me, clearly mirin' and always pointed in my direction when not lifting, so I asked her for her contact and got her fb. (didn't ask for number, in normal circumstance I might, but I don't want to escalate with her, yet, anyway).

Anyway, she wants to meet up to try muscle-ups at an outdoor gym.

I'm not totally single, so I'm not gonna escalate, but easy one.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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