"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Successful guys, do you fill out income section on online dating?

bigdave17

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this is an interesting topic

At first glance, you would say only a gold digger would care about finances but if i had to pick between 2 identical women and 1 made 100K and 1 made 20, I would much rather go for the successful one

What have you guys experienced?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A true gold digger isn't going to pay you much mind if you're not pulling in at least $250k+. And I would consider that just "entry level" territory.

Women drawn by a salary less than that are either just looking for an equal, or, they're broke and have no idea what rich/successful really is.

Depends on the site too. Match's highest bracket is $150k+. That alone won't attract gold diggers, but pics of you dipicting a very well off lifestyle will.

I list my salary. I more often find my equals. Haven't had issues with gold diggers to date.
you find attractive women with high incomes on dating sites who want to date you?

that's phenomenal
 

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Most of these women have already dated/married the rich guy and now theyre just looking for a REAL MAN, rather than a provider.
PUA Bro Theory tells you that women fvck alphas until they hit the wall, then marry a beta. So you're saying there's another stage after this when they get divorced and seek an alpha?
 

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PUA Bro Theory tells you that women fvck alphas until they hit the wall, then marry a beta. So you're saying there's another stage after this when they get divorced and seek an alpha?
PUA bro theory, what a joke. :)
 

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Quite often meet one here and there who make more than I do. Not unusual for me to date women with Masters or PhDs. A few lawyers...

It's probably easier for me now at my age though. Most of these women have already dated/married the rich guy and now theyre just looking for a REAL MAN, rather than a provider.

A real man who makes enough on his own to keep up with their lifestyle so they don't have to be someone's sugar momma is perfect.
I want somebody who makes a decent income but nothing crazy

My best friend is with a dentist who makes 250K a year. Guess what? she works 70 hours a week. I went to their house on Saturday and she was doing work stuff on her lap top ON A SATURDAY NIGHT AT 11!

That would drive me absolutely insane. A teacher making 60K a year would be perfect TBH
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It depends on website, E-Harmony is filled with professional women with master degrees or higher , and they are not necessary gold digger , but want some one who is doing well. I have found money/career/education weight more on eharmony than if you are on POF or other semi hookup website.
 
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