"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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El MonoLoco

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The skills are paying off fellas.

Went out two nights ago and had a DJ night.
Let me tell you how I pulled something that I have never done and will be doing a lot more of.
Ok, first off my friends are duds and no one wanted to go out. It was thrusday but in my town thursday is a better night to go out than fri. So I went out alone.
Score#1
I go to this bar that is always poppin. Right as I walk into the joint I see a few people on the dance floor. But there is this group of girls who can't take their eyes off me. I noticed smiled and continued on to look around for someone I knew and get a drink. So after a bit I notice them checkin me out again so I make my approach. One of them showed me her interest right away so we started talking and her friends peeled off slowly. After talking for a while I needed another drink so I excused myself and left to get a drink. After I got my drink I was looking for a friend of mine that I ran into but this girl actually came looking for me to talk somemore. Her friend joined us and I could see that she was jelous of her friend for talking to me. I didn't want to cause any **** so I said I got to run and closed for the # and got the home/cell numbers.
Score #2
So on my way home I stop off at the bar by my house that a buddy bartends at. So who do I see chillin inside? This knockout chick at least an 8 and she's in one of my classes, just never got a chance to talk to her. We chatted for a few but it was getting late so I asked for her # and again I get a cell and home #. Talk about a night!
Only problem is I'm already seeing another girl in the same class as score#2 so that one's gonna be tough, this one is way finer though.

I just had to tell you guys. I am finally learning.

Should have posted this yesterday but oh well.

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"Out of all the people I know, I still like myself the best" - me
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Caley

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Freakin awesome bro... excellent work!!! Im glad its all paying off for you.

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dOnT FoReGt To SmILe bEcAuSe yOu NeVeR kNoW wHo iS FaLLiNg iN LoVe WiTh yOuR sMiLe...=)
 

Paradox

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Very cool!

I'm moving this to the "Success forum"
 

Ashlee Angel

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Good job my man and don't worry about score number 2 your a DJ you'll figure it out.

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The more girls you ask out the more chances of you getting a yes.
 

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nice
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HBK

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smooth i like the way u dealt with the other girlz getting jealous.

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"Keep your friends close, but your enemies closer" ~ Godfather part II
 
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