"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just wanted to thank all of you who have helped with advice over the past few months! I've been working on myself since I found this site, and finally applied what I've learned Saturday night.

I was surrounded by 8s and 9s all night, without having to work at it at all. By the way, I'm 44, and all of these women were in their 20s and early 30s.

At the end of the night, an 8 with a great body (21-year-old) asked to follow me home, and needless to say, the rest is history.

Thanks again for all your help, and now I'm more confident in the advice I've been offering to others of you. I look forward to continuing to learn from you and help those who may be where I was!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sir_Chancealot

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WHAT?!? THIS SH*T ACTUALLY WORKS?!? Hell, I thought we were all just kidding!


Good job man!

See my newbie DJs....this stuff DOES work.
 

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Just so we're all clear here u had sex with her right? ;p

If you did GOOD JOB!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hope to be in your shoes when I'm 44 ;p

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It's not who's wrong or right, but who's stronger.
 

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Originally posted by bclarke675:


I was surrounded by 8s and 9s all night, without having to work at it at all.
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bclarke675

Hey dude tell me more. How did you get them all around you without having to work at it? I got to admit I have been at this site for a lot lot longer than you, doing the things it says but am not yet seeing the results I would like. Please tell more.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Great job bclarke675!!!!!!!!!!!!


Keep it going!!


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"Do not fear failure." George S. Patton

"Do not make excuses, whether it s your fault or not."....George S. Patton

"Anyone in any walk of life who is content with mediocrity is untrue to himself and the American way." ... George S. Patton
 

bclarke675

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Originally posted by Interested2:
bclarke675

Hey dude tell me more. How did you get them all around you without having to work at it? I got to admit I have been at this site for a lot lot longer than you, doing the things it says but am not yet seeing the results I would like. Please tell more.

Basically, I just made sure I was acting like the life of the party, attracting everyone in the room, not just the women. I went to the club with the idea of having fun no matter what happened or didn't.

I found out that when you DON'T care, that's when things will go your way!

Keep a smile on your face, laugh loud and often WITH people, not at them, joke with everyone and give the impression that you are the one to be around if they're looking for a good time! Above all, people want to feel good when they go out, and the easiest way to do that is to associate with others who are enjoying themselves and others. Become the person they want to associate with! The women will come running.
 

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bclarke675,

"Become the person they want to associate with! The women will come running."

Yes it is!

-Neo
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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