Success With Women Is So Easy

[Anomalous]

Don't you want to stop being in your house the whole day and night? Don't you want to have FUN? Don't you want to start living the life that you can't even imagine to be possible? Well its all possible! Let me introduce you to something.


Success with women is so damn easy!

Thats right, you read it correctly!


The problem with this whole community:

Most guys come on here to be happy, and their take is that,"I have to get girls to be happy/I have to fvck girls to be happy/ I have to do this and that......" But in reality you just need to work on yourself.

How do I work on myself:

To start off, YOU DON'T NEED GIRLS!!! Thats right, you only need to find real friends. Someone who you could call at 3 AM in the morning to come pick you up. Girls come after you have mastered being comfortable in your on body. Once you have some real good buddies you can hang out at the clubs or parties with them!

Finding a new group of friends:

Well lets face it, if you don't have friends in school/work/sports team right now, you won't find it easy to make friends with them. You need to go to a new mall, join a new club/gym anything where you start off fresh.

Don't look for someone who is just like you to make friends. Look for the guy you want to become, or qualities you admire. That means make friends with guys who have a special talent, someone who is good at a special skill. Whether its a skateboarder, an Alfa male who is the center of attention, a breakdancer, etc.

Once you found this dude, give him a unique compliment. This way you monopolize his happyness (B-Lemond goes into this stuff). Ask for his # then invite him to a nightclub or have ask, "Whats going down tonight?" Then yall can chill at a party. From here you just started a new social group full of happiness and women!

Only once your comfortable with yourself you'll be getting girls like TD in a night club, but with less effort.

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

Will you be my friend???

 

[reallyfreakinlost]

You idiot, we don't want to change ourselves

We don't want a group of friends

WE WANT TO GET LAID. GET THIS THROUGH YOUR THICK FVCKING SKULL

and by the way I know how to get laid, I don't get lucky often but I do have merit

 

[Unregistered]

I want to change myself. Right now I have semen in my testicles. I'd like to transfer this semen to an attractive female's mouth.

 

[reallyfreakinlost]

I want to change myself. Right now I have semen in my testicles. I'd like to transfer this semen to an attractive female's mouth.

I have a hunch you have a kinky relationship with farm animals

 

[d2j]

if you didnt have friends you would be very lonely and unhappy so make sure you have friends and your not a loser who sits on the internet reading about girls 24/7 ..is that what you mean?

 

[reallyfreakinlost]

if you didnt have friends you would be very lonely and unhappy so make sure you have friends and your not a loser who sits on the internet reading about girls 24/7 ..is that what you mean?

I am a very very bored person, and you're right I have no friends... but I DON'T WANT TO HAVE TO GO THRU FRIENDS to get a girl, I'm not that pathetic. I want to make friends with people while not having the ulterior motive "well I'm trying to get a girl, maybe this guy will make me look cool" Yeah I am a loser who reads this page 24/7, the only reason I haven't quit this site is I'm still trying to help you guys, most of the time I do it in a *******-sounding tone, but that's just what I sound like, that's why I don't get friends, but I don't care, I'll never change myself to fit somebody else's definition of a "cool person".

 

[Ojete]

You can get laid without the need of: friends, joining clubs, sports, having a business, being a leader, and etc.etc. etc.

But yeah, they are nice areas to develop if you are seeing this through the "self-improvement" point of view. All of that has been widely discussed through these years in the tips section and dj bible though.

 

[d2j]

I am a very very bored person, and you're right I have no friends... but I DON'T WANT TO HAVE TO GO THRU FRIENDS to get a girl, I'm not that pathetic. I want to make friends with people while not having the ulterior motive "well I'm trying to get a girl, maybe this guy will make me look cool" Yeah I am a loser who reads this page 24/7, the only reason I haven't quit this site is I'm still trying to help you guys, most of the time I do it in a *******-sounding tone, but that's just what I sound like, that's why I don't get friends, but I don't care, I'll never change myself to fit somebody else's definition of a "cool person".

oh..fair play (i was actually asking the guy who posted this thread)

 

[reallyfreakinlost]

oh..fair play (i was actually asking the guy who posted this thread)

Well, I posted that for you, regardless of who you were talking to. You see, making friends with people for the sake of getting laid is REALLY LAME. I hope you stop this practice, because it makes you look bad in the end

 

[Trapper]

dude friends talk, lovers make love..

 

[rocky_mtn]

Well, I posted that for you, regardless of who you were talking to. You see, making friends with people for the sake of getting laid is REALLY LAME. I hope you stop this practice, because it makes you look bad in the end

WTF is wrong with making friends to get laid?

Two goals are to 1. make friends and 2. get laid.
So why no combine the two goals into one.
I use my personal connections to gain business, but I don't use my friends for money.
I workout to 1. get heathly and 2. to get laid. So theres nothing wrong with combining your strong points and using them to your advantage.

 

[reallyfreakinlost]

WTF is wrong with making friends to get laid?

Two goals are to 1. make friends and 2. get laid.
So why no combine the two goals into one.
I use my personal connections to gain business, but I don't use my friends for money.
I workout to 1. get heathly and 2. to get laid. So theres nothing wrong with combining your strong points and using them to your advantage.

How would you like it if somebody became your best friend, but then DITCHES you after he dates your sister?

 

[reallyfreakinlost]

The reason why I feel so strongly against making friends to date a girl is I HAVE DONE THIS BEFORE. I made friends with a guy, got his g/f to like me instead, and she leaves him for me, I made friends with him solely because I wanted his g/f. The guilt I've had to live with all these years is TOO HORRIBLE, I really need to warn you guys not to do this, the guilt eats me up everyday.

 

[d2j]

Well, I posted that for you, regardless of who you were talking to. You see, making friends with people for the sake of getting laid is REALLY LAME. I hope you stop this practice, because it makes you look bad in the end

Hold on. when did i say i make friends to get laid?

 

[reallyfreakinlost]

Hold on. when did i say i make friends to get laid?

Ok, so I read you wrong, sorry about that. But I have a question for you, why are you coming to a forum about getting chicks and saying you need to make friends, of course friends are important, but getting friends isn't the reason why people like me come to this forum. And even if we did have friends, nothing will give us the joy like a girlfriend could, so friends aren't everything, again, I misread you, I apologize, but there are people in this thread who are saying its good to make friends for the sole purpose of getting laid.

 

[d2j]

Ok, so I read you wrong, sorry about that. But I have a question for you, why are you coming to a forum about getting chicks and saying you need to make friends....

Wtf are you on about

REREAD MY POST

 

[reallyfreakinlost]

Wtf are you on about

REREAD MY POST

You said instead of spending "24/7 on this forum" we should "make friends and not feel lonely" but let me try to get this into your brain so you'll stop torturing a dating advice forum with friendship advice WE AREN'T HERE FOR FRIENDSHIP ADVICE

 

[dynamicallyidle]

WTF are you talking about. Being happy with yourself is NOT a magical solution to getting whatever you want. I'm sick to death of preachers telling everyone that all they need is to look within themselves and be happy, and then all the girls in the world will be magnetised to their nutsack.


This is BS. Being secure and comfortable with yourself is NOT a requisite to picking up. Of course if you are stuttering excessively or pissing your pants that's another issue. This is common sense .

But self-improvement elevates self-confidence, which is essential to getting women. It is not the end-all be-all to getting quality women. But it undoubtedly one of the key ingredients.

 

[reallyfreakinlost]

But self-improvement elevates self-confidence, which is essential to getting women. It is not the end-all be-all to getting quality women. But it undoubtedly one of the key ingredients.

The problem with this mentality is there is NO END to self improvement...
When you get designer clothes, you want to get more, when you get a car, you always want a nicer one.

don't get me wrong, improving yourself is a good idea, all I'm saying is self-improvement shouldn't be the center of your life.

Ok, if you still disagree with me, I have nothing more to say, other than I have found the "enjoy yourself" approach to life is far more easier. All this approach is, and it isn't really an approach, all it is is having a good time, because if you're constantly stressed/worried about being good enough, the vibes you give off will not be pleasant to the girl, or anyone for that matter