Success with women is an oxymoron

[Travel memoir21]

Success with women I've noticed now is an oxymoron. The more you try, the less it evades you. The best strategy I've found is to be aloof from it, find a greater sense of meaning in your life apart from that pursuit, have a life outside of it, live a monastic life, find a sense of spiritual pursuits, semen retention and saving your essence which is huge, have goals and passions and once again find a sense of meaning by pursuing goals that gives back to your community with your gifts and talents. Right now I'm a writer and I enjoy writing poems for several stations online to inspire god consciousness and inner peace within them, I enjoy that aspect very much and I feel like I'm giving back. Right now, I'm also a Tinder King and racking some quality and quantity...lol...women on Tinder and other dating apps online. I've never had this much attention before, the passport bro lifestyle is the way to go baby. So really one of the basics a Man gotta learn when it comes to this stuff is having a sense of aloofness when it comes to this and finding a greater meaning in his life other than this and pursuing that.

 

[corrector]

But what are you doing with all the attention from women? If you are not having sex, you are not marrying any of them, then wouldn't that make you a male equivalent of an attention hor?

 

[Travel memoir21]

You’re right, I can be an attention hor…but A target practice is a good target practice these days..lol..besides it’s good to keep that social muscle up so when the real thing comes along. Ya just never know.

 

[BaronOfHair]

@Travel memoir21 "The more you try, the less it evades you"

"If you're going to try, go all the way. There is no other feeling like that. You will be alone with the gods, and the nights will flame with fire. You will ride life straight to perfect laughter. It's the only good fight there is.” Charles Bukowski


What he says is ESPECIALLY true when it comes to the ladies, I've found anyway. They can instantly sense when a man is "trying"(I.E. "He wants me, but he's doing nothing more than hinting around, rather than making his desire for me explicit"), not just with them, but EVERYTHING in his life

Can't, with any degree of honesty, fault them for labeling such fellas a lousy investment