"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've had loads of dates with girls i've met in the field. But many lacked quality. I'm not looking for sex. Looking for a solid,quality girl. Tried pof. Terrible.'nuff said. Match.com has been, quite good really. I took a quick look i've had many numbers. Kinda had to start weeding them out. But I looked ay my.msgs sent/recieved. 41% of messages are returne and I'm no brad pitt. Had a date the other night, really quality girl, personality,looks,etc. I think online dating is really turning the corner. Dont waste time on pof.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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490 posts....

Naughty Nina's look will be priceless right now.

You are looking for virgin at a wh0rehouse gimmey.
 
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Ahh I knew I'd have someone come in here with negativity. Sad really. Not sure who nina is. Either way. I think your post says it all. No point in hanging around an evironment with so much negativity. God bless all! I'm out!
 
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I didn't mean to be a d!ck. Read your previous posts, I understand what you are going through and wished someone told me to MAN THE FVCK UP.

We are here to do that :yes:

Elaborating on what I am saying. Women that you mean on the daily have their own problems and insecurities. They get hit on ALL the TIME. Now she is online, multiply that number by 100.

The Legend:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=196130
 
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OP : can you tell me how much was your returned message rate of POF ?
I was considered subscribing to match or eharmoney , but a lot of guys told me it is same as free , except with fewer users
also sorry for this question but are you white ? because I also heard women on paid dating sites look for white rich men ,while on free sites looking for sexy men to fuuck with
thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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