"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Success IS SUCCESS is success

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AMAZING
i was so BORED out of my mind, but as i was THERE being BORED out of my MIND
i was also amazed, SUCCESS IS SUCCESS NO MATTER WHERE YOU OBTAIN IT.
And as i said there and hear the guy, who is one of the many above me, (as of yet ;) ) talk about TALKIN to people, and not to be shy (this is why i was bored lol, dun need help about goin up to people)
I REALIZED that this is alll about it,
in this job talkin 2 people BASICALLY makes you money. and i hear the same crap come out of peoples mouths i would hear in here.:cool:

WUT DO U GOT TO LOSE?
wether
its making money ( like i do now)
OR
picking up chicks (like most people here wanna do)

its all about not carin what people think (my personal philosophy) AND LIVIN LIKE ITS YOUR LAST DAY of your life (also my belief)
i dunno
i dont wanna repeat myself 2 much
TALK ABOUT IT:woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo: :woo:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ya ok i saw 15 views here wich i didnt make
post u pansies !:p
 
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yall scared of success or simply cant relate?
 
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NO one has success in any other parts of their life?
I'm dissapointed.
 
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1) learn English
2) I don't understand what you are getting at.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Centaurion
1) learn English
2) I don't understand what you are getting at.
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the title says it all
SUCCESS
 
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Let me articulate your realization for you so that English speaking Americans can glean a tidbit of self guiding information from your profound realization that you are thoroughly incapable of expressing in words, but is actually quite important for everyone to understand.

No offence.

You're realizing that to be successful you have to be a social person in some respect. You made the mental connection between socialization being a part of all things not just getting women. For instance, making business connections to be more attractive to customers is similar to the idea that dating multiple women will make you more attractive to other new women who find out about them.

It’s simply the primal program in our hunter gather heads saying “more is better than less...but I don’t know why” Since more isn’t always better than less. For instance, I’d rather talk less and fvck more, but sometimes it’s the other way around.

When you say “Don’t care what others think” you mean…you cannot pay attention to what others say who put you down and as a result deter you from achieving a goal or pursuing an interest. Live your life the way you choose to live your life, and as a result you will be much happier.

Is this what you were getting at?
 
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Originally posted by Qmanchoo
Let me articulate your realization for you so that English speaking Americans can glean a tidbit of self guiding information from your profound realization that you are thoroughly incapable of expressing in words, but is actually quite important for everyone to understand.

No offence.
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none taken :rolleyes:
 
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Originally posted by Qmanchoo
Let me articulate your realization for you so that English speaking Americans can glean a tidbit of self guiding information from your profound realization that you are thoroughly incapable of expressing in words, but is actually quite important for everyone to understand.

No offence.

You're realizing that to be successful you have to be a social person in some respect. You made the mental connection between socialization being a part of all things not just getting women. For instance, making business connections to be more attractive to customers is similar to the idea that dating multiple women will make you more attractive to other new women who find out about them.

It’s simply the primal program in our hunter gather heads saying “more is better than less...but I don’t know why” Since more isn’t always better than less. For instance, I’d rather talk less and fvck more, but sometimes it’s the other way around.

When you say “Don’t care what others think” you mean…you cannot pay attention to what others say who put you down and as a result deter you from achieving a goal or pursuing an interest. Live your life the way you choose to live your life, and as a result you will be much happier.

Is this what you were getting at?
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No, I literally mean i do not care what others think.
Some people don't do some things just because of other peoples thoughts about them.:woo:
 
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