"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nine Breaker

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With the recent demise of the Bars&Clubs forum, I'm feeling kinda empty now. There's a hole where a fairly useful (if unpopular) forum once were.

Wouldn't it be good if we had a new forum introduced here - a forum devoted to areas such as SUCCESS STORIES and MOTIVATION and the like?

Think about it - aren't you sick of hearing the same old "Why can't I get chicks?" garbage in the main forum over and over again? It does get a little uninspiring after a while. That's exactly the reason we should have a forum for positive things that have happened to DJ's, and good ways to get motivated for success. It would be based around positive experiences of other successful DJs, and that could have a good impact upon the low self-esteemed DJ's around here.

Finally, it would give us all a clue as to how much this site has actually HELPED former AFC's into becoming real men.

Give feedback to this idea - enough positive feedback could very-well get someone's attention...

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The Human Body Is A Fragile Thing, But The Human Soul Can NEVER Be Truly Broken.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Serg897

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I think it is actually a good idea, it would make for some good readng

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"If at first you dont succeed, try, try, again"
 

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