Success doesn't guarantee you keep a girl

[New_Journey]

Many men think that being successful, having status, physique, money, charming, charismatic, etc, will guarantee you keep a girl. This is a fallacy, relationships are a woman's job.

Women always will have a hidden agenda, that's why she is with you, and its fine, but the moment she sees she can't have what she wants, eventually she will leave, no matter how successful you are, you just have to look how many successful guys have gotten divorced or broken up.

I would say, if you become too successful, there is a higher chance that she will leave, women are neurotic, and when they see you becoming too successful their insecurities kick in in over drive, then they start to try control your actions, want more commitment from you, fights, start to sabotage the relationship, until eventually in her short sighted vision, they think they can do better than you.

You can do everyhting perfect, you can be the Red Pill God, and even that doesn't guarantee anything. Now, I'm not saying women are bad, I'm saying that just how they are. You may think "my woman is different, she's not like that", I'll tell you, a women can't be different from women, and your girl is a woman.

Have you had this before?

 

[Solomon]

Totally that's why I laugh at these LMS guys because they are talking from a lack of experience in my opinion(Keyboard Jokeying Projection Style) and think that having money will keep a woman around it will only keep a golddigger around as long as you keep paying tricking

LMS gives you access to women it doesn't mean they will stay. Once you become good with the basics of seduction, being able to approach, flirt with a woman, go on dates, and smash. One of the biggest issues 90% of DJs will face, regardless of how successful or good-looking they are is women's retention.

Success might give you an edge but women will always shyt test you, and I would say the more successful you are the more women will shyt test you. To make sure that "you're that guy Pal"

Sometimes it's on purpose, sometimes it's subconscious

The older I get, the more I look at people's character, not just women. When I first started to gain more financial success. I was hanging around some people who were fake af. I quickly learned that just because you're successful hanging around successful people doesn't mean they are your friends or have your best interests. When you value your time and energy you can't just give it to anyone, especially a jezebel that may try to **** up your life.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Being successful is something YOU do...that doesn't really have anything to do with the relationship.

You can be rich, but your relationship can be broke.

Just like you have to put in work to become successful, you have to put in work to maintain a successful relationship over time.

Failure to do this means it will not last no matter how rich and successful a person becomes.

Many times this is exactly WHY rich people seem to have bad relationships not only with their wife/gf but also with their kids...they are so focused on making money and becoming wealthy and successful that they allow their relationships with people to basically evaporate because they don't have time for them.

 

[lostexplorer]

Totally that's why I laugh at these LMS guys because they are talking from a lack of experience in my opinion(Keyboard Jokeying Projection Style) and think that having money will keep a woman around it will only keep a golddigger around as long as you keep paying tricking

LMS gives you access to women it doesn't mean they will stay. Once you become good with the basics of seduction, being able to approach, flirt with a woman, go on dates, and smash. One of the biggest issues 90% of DJs will face, regardless of how successful or good-looking they are is women's retention.

Success might give you an edge but women will always shyt test you, and I would say the more successful you are the more women will shyt test you. To make sure that "you're that guy Pal"

Sometimes it's on purpose, sometimes it's subconscious

The older I get, the more I look at people's character, not just women. When I first started to gain more financial success. I was hanging around some people who were fake af. I quickly learned that just because you're successful hanging around successful people doesn't mean they are your friends or have your best interests. When you value your time and energy you can't just give it to anyone, especially a jezebel that may try to **** up your life.

I'd there was a way to bookmark this.

 

[jhonny9546]

This is really interesting.
I was just reading about a related topic on "how to keep a woman in a relationship," and many men in the Red Pill community or in groups like MarriedRedPill share a particular philosophy on this.
Then, women respond like this:


https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/drkyd9

I've always strived to understand the truth, because in some relationships, just like MRP describes, women initially react with fear, then respond positively, and eventually the relationship evolves into one where the man takes the lead. But in other cases, it's exactly like FDS describes, something MRP men would dismiss as "she just wasn't that into you".


Sure, you have your own definition of success, and your partner might have a different one. But what we're really discussing here is: what are the most effective behaviors to adopt if we, as mature men, want to lead a healthy relationship?


Dread works well on immature women, those lacking self-esteem or a solid sense of self, but it doesn't sit right when used with a healthy woman.


I really wish the forum would make a clearer distinction when discussing these topics, whether we’re talking about emotionally healthy people or not.

 

[Serenity]

Keeping a girl is a whole different "game" compared to getting a girl. I disagree that relationships are a woman's job, that perspective is doomed to lead to the end of the relationship. She has to do her part for sure, but so do you as a man.

The type of woman you're describing is unfit for relationship and does not reflect all women. I do agree that there is no way to keep such a woman or at least there is no way to thrive being with such a woman. I also agree that there are a lot of women like that out there, so I totally get how men may think all women are like that because they might just have experienced such women.

I have all around improved just about everything about myself while being with the same woman for 10 years now, there's still not even a hint of any drama. So respectfully, I don't see what you're talking about reflected in my own experience.

I never counted on my personal successes, which first and foremost benefits me, to be the glue that keeps us together. What keeps us together is focusing on our shared experience of going through life together. If I just kick back and put it all on her to make that happen is to give away all responsibility for creating a good life and putting 100% of that burden on her, of course she'd fvcking leave if she's the one pulling the full weight of the relationship while all I do is selfishly bury myself in my personal successes. It makes all the sense in the world.

Step 1 is finding a woman fit for and deserving of a relationship, step 2 is to do my part for the good of both of us. If you did step 1 correctly she will do her part for the good of both of you as well, if not it's going to end up the way you describe in your post.