Breadstick2000
Don Juan
Friday night I went out clubbing, with my mate and some old female freinds from school.
One of them, I managed to pull, about a year ago and also a few times after whenever I saw her. For some reason my other mates kept telling me to leave her alone as she is a minging imatture bi*ch, which is wrong cos she seems alright to me. Anyways, I wasn't expecting anything serious from her but I thought it could do me some good just to have a bit of fun with her and not get to attacthed (cos I'm still a ****in virgin and havn't actually had any type of g/f before).
Turns out that she has been going out with one of my mates and being ****ed on the backseat of his car behind my back, this is the person that said shes minging and imatture. Now WTF??? This lad is nothing but a lazy little ****e who mumbles when he speaks, does nothing all day but smoke and drink. I apriciate him not letting me know on this, but come on, what does the bird see in him and why didn't she go for a more active and far better lookin fella like me???
Moving on, later that friday night in the club, I was left on the dancefloor with no girl. Everyone else had one, which was pretty anoying cos I was left on my own, ended up getting myself a drink and chilling out on the comfey long seats around the bar. This is where two birds down next to me, which I thought nothing of at first, but one of the girls had left so it was sitting on my own, with another girl sitting on her own. No words were spoken by her, and she just sat there. I opened up a conversation with her, not acually trying to go for this person, you mean its rude not to.
This was not intended to happen, and I don't know how it did. I didn't follow any rules of the DJ bible what so ever, exept for small things like the eye-contact, but we ended up getting on very well, I mean VERY WELL. I had full lead of the convo, I was asking her some questions and she would blabber on about bull for a bit, I would basically same some simular ****e back and out the blue we could not stop talking all night. For the first time I've actually 'liked' a female. We sort of clicked, her mates were sound she was buying me the drinks and asked for my mobile at the end of the night to put her number onto it, she also wanted me to put mine in hers and ring it so she knows we definatly have the right numbers.
I havn't had a girl be so happy around me.
It was not until we left the club and went to get some food with her I realized, this girl is very attractive, lol but it didn't bother me at all.
This is were the gritty bit comes in, I called her last night but she didn't answer. So I decided to leave a text message, she still has not got back to me yet, bugger!!! I think this is another dead chicken.
Why the hell does this always happen, she was clearly showing high interest in me and shes exacly what I want in a girl???
It also relates to what I was explaining earlier with that bird from school going out with my mate. Why do they all flirt and kiss me but nothin more???
I'm very dissapointed about the bird I met friday, I thought I had found myself a g/f. Not cos of her looks, but cos we had to much to say to each other. I havn't had that before.
I tell you this tho (and you AFCs), I have learned confidence really does matter. Mines been bloodey shattered again, cos Im worried people only take me for my image and nothing else.
I'm back to where I was, and where I've always been since 3 years ago when I started doing this kind of thing.
I don't think its because Im not doing it right, but I'm doing it wrong somewhere. Unless its just the type of person I am.
Sorry for the borin long post. Cheers.
Breadstick
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One of them, I managed to pull, about a year ago and also a few times after whenever I saw her. For some reason my other mates kept telling me to leave her alone as she is a minging imatture bi*ch, which is wrong cos she seems alright to me. Anyways, I wasn't expecting anything serious from her but I thought it could do me some good just to have a bit of fun with her and not get to attacthed (cos I'm still a ****in virgin and havn't actually had any type of g/f before).
Turns out that she has been going out with one of my mates and being ****ed on the backseat of his car behind my back, this is the person that said shes minging and imatture. Now WTF??? This lad is nothing but a lazy little ****e who mumbles when he speaks, does nothing all day but smoke and drink. I apriciate him not letting me know on this, but come on, what does the bird see in him and why didn't she go for a more active and far better lookin fella like me???
Moving on, later that friday night in the club, I was left on the dancefloor with no girl. Everyone else had one, which was pretty anoying cos I was left on my own, ended up getting myself a drink and chilling out on the comfey long seats around the bar. This is where two birds down next to me, which I thought nothing of at first, but one of the girls had left so it was sitting on my own, with another girl sitting on her own. No words were spoken by her, and she just sat there. I opened up a conversation with her, not acually trying to go for this person, you mean its rude not to.
This was not intended to happen, and I don't know how it did. I didn't follow any rules of the DJ bible what so ever, exept for small things like the eye-contact, but we ended up getting on very well, I mean VERY WELL. I had full lead of the convo, I was asking her some questions and she would blabber on about bull for a bit, I would basically same some simular ****e back and out the blue we could not stop talking all night. For the first time I've actually 'liked' a female. We sort of clicked, her mates were sound she was buying me the drinks and asked for my mobile at the end of the night to put her number onto it, she also wanted me to put mine in hers and ring it so she knows we definatly have the right numbers.
I havn't had a girl be so happy around me.
It was not until we left the club and went to get some food with her I realized, this girl is very attractive, lol but it didn't bother me at all.
This is were the gritty bit comes in, I called her last night but she didn't answer. So I decided to leave a text message, she still has not got back to me yet, bugger!!! I think this is another dead chicken.
Why the hell does this always happen, she was clearly showing high interest in me and shes exacly what I want in a girl???
It also relates to what I was explaining earlier with that bird from school going out with my mate. Why do they all flirt and kiss me but nothin more???
I'm very dissapointed about the bird I met friday, I thought I had found myself a g/f. Not cos of her looks, but cos we had to much to say to each other. I havn't had that before.
I tell you this tho (and you AFCs), I have learned confidence really does matter. Mines been bloodey shattered again, cos Im worried people only take me for my image and nothing else.
I'm back to where I was, and where I've always been since 3 years ago when I started doing this kind of thing.
I don't think its because Im not doing it right, but I'm doing it wrong somewhere. Unless its just the type of person I am.
Sorry for the borin long post. Cheers.
Breadstick
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