"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MackJr

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I thought I'd mention that it seems that most successful people aren't that philosophical. They're just driven workaholics. The rest of us either don't care, or we sit around thinking about what drives the driven ones.


I've got a platonic friend who's very successful, your standard career-woman archetype. It's really difficult having a conversation with her because she gives short one or two word answers and if you say some she doesn't agree with (like the sky is blue) she'll get mad and argue, then try to trump the argument if she can't win. She usually can't win, either because it's like there are..gaps in her knowledge.

Anyway, I think the trait that makes her successful isn't intelligence or having defined any particular philosophy. it' just that her brain is so rigid, she's able to milk the direction in which she's going. Another way of putting it is that she's not smart enough to know that when she's going the wrong way, and she inevitably gets a few successes as a result.

If you're not naturally stupid, or rigid like that, then you actually have a disadvantage as far as monetary success is concerned.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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More like they have a specific 'philosophy' which doesn't confuse them. I majored in philosophy ffs, so my head is swimming with thoughts. It's more trouble than it's worth.
 

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Originally posted by MackJr
I thought I'd mention that it seems that most successful people aren't that philosophical. They're just driven workaholics. The rest of us either don't care, or we sit around thinking about what drives the driven ones.

You are absolutely right. It is obvious! Of course its not black and white, generally speaking however it is true!
 

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Originally posted by MackJr
I thought I'd mention that it seems that most successful people aren't that philosophical. They're just driven workaholics. The rest of us either don't care, or we sit around thinking about what drives the driven ones.
What criteria do you use to label someone as "successful"?

Big house and fancy car doesn't equal rich. The only thing that matters is net worth. And people with high net worth tend to have MORE time to ponder things than do others. You are probably looking at high income wage slaves. BIG difference.
 

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"Would you rather write history books, or be the ones whom other people will write about?"

I've noticed people who are 'successful' (meaning they have a strong purpose to their life) rarely sit around pondering the meaning of life, because they've already found it!

That's why bored college teens usually turn up to protest rallies or become socialists or some crap like that. They have nothing else to do.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Boner da Stoner

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lol too true mack jr man

you don't make as much money as a workaholic or daft employee can save if you like to have fun and frolic like a human should.

All that I know about those ind of people is that they are very judgemental, if you come off as a party animal initially as a stranger you must work your ass off to fit into their domain. They have extremely strong walls, and these ones you have to hammer away.

Don't know what I'm getting at so ignore me:p
 

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Doesnt that tell you something?
these people simply trade MORE time for the money they acquire, they really dont have anything you cant.
 
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